Signs that He's Interested

Whether Spotting the Tell-tales or the More Obscure, You Need to Know What the Signs Are that He is in Fact Interested

To truly discover his true intentions you have to zoom in on the signals that he's sending you, most of which come in the form of that subconscious form of communication that rarely gains the attention it so deserves: body language. According to many Psychologists and Linguists alike, before we developed speech … we communicated with our bodies. Yes, believe it or not the movies depicting cave men pointing and grunting were in fact vividly accurate.

But seriously, the lingo of the body reveals ones motives, intentions and end-game type messages … everything else as they say is all just fun and games. But how do you grasp the ways of his body lingo if you don't know what the signals mean? Well let's define and reaffirm a few of the less coy and some of the more abstract.

It's all in his Approach.

If you want to whether a man's interested in you or not, pay attention to his tummy when he approaches you. If he begins to pull the old Jack Tripper move and suck it in, then you know he's likely into you. The tummy tuck is usually followed by the classic chest puffed out standing tall move.

Let the Preening Begin.

This is one of the more obvious signals. Why would he care how he looks like at that particular moment increasingly more than when he was while he was getting ready or any other moment in the day and so the preening begins. Preening begins usually in the form of:
• Smoothing his collar or tie (often doubles up as a classic sign of emitting power).
• Brushing or picking non-existent dust or blemishes of his shoulders, face or elsewhere (often doubles up as a sign of weakness or low self-confidence).
• Rearranging his shirt, collar, cufflinks or other clothing items.

Body Positioning.