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How Much Housework Should Men Do?

Should Men Be Expected to Do the Same Amount of Housework as Women?

By A. Hermitt, published Apr 10, 2008
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According to a recent study on housework, married women do more housework than men do. In fact, married women do more housework than they did when they were single. On average, married women do 17 hours of housework each week while married men do 13 hours. A U.S. news article suggests women the women probably are dumped on by men even more than the study shows.

Yet, there is good news in this study. In 1976 for example, a married women did 10 more hours a week of housework than then do now. Men did about six hours less work than they do now. Therefore, while men and women have not divided the housework in half, they have come a long way on making the division of labor even.

Some other points I noticed from the graph on this study are that single women do about 4 hours less housework than they do now. In addition, single men do almost the same amount of housework now as they did in 1976. Maybe they just don't see the dirt.

My question is how much housework do women want their husbands to do? When compared to my father, my husband does a great deal of more housework, while being involved more with our kids and doing more community service.

In 1976, my dad worked, came home, slept, gave us money and went back to work. He cooked breakfast on the weekends and attended a few plays. My mother did all of the laundry, cooked all of the meals, cleaned the rooms including those of the children, and took care of the babies with the help of a teenage daughters.

In 2005, my husband took the kids to evening activities, folded laundry, cleaned the kitchen, cooked breakfast and dinner on the weekends, and spend a great deal of time working in the church. I like to joke that he is a better mom than I am, and in actually he is in many ways.

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Great article. My husband used to do more of the housework than he does now, but I am now home more than I was then. I think he "sees" the dirt more than I do, though. That is a product of how we were raised -- I grew up in a messy house and his mom will still stay up late at night just because her floor needs to be mopped.

Posted on 08/06/2008 at 7:08:56 AM

 
i am wondering, if u women who commented on this are so happy with the amount of work your husbands do around the house, how come to came across this article? i came accross it by typing... "why can't men do the housework" into google. because i have just come home from work, and faced with a dirty house, needing hoovering and cleaning. whereas my husbad has his day off, doesn't get up until 11.30 am and goes to play cricket. and does nothing except for shower in the morning. i get up at 7 am every day, even on the weekends, which is supposed to be my day off. and i start the day by doing housework, having my shower, doing more housework, dealing with my son, and more housework. i have nevr had a day off and done something for myself. it drives me mad that my husband does nothing on his days off. now off i go to clean up after him....

Posted on 08/04/2008 at 7:08:47 AM

 
i think we should stop looking at it as a male/female thing and look at it as a partnership thing. both partners should be putting in roughly equal effort. you take up for each other when one or the other has an off day (or week, or month) but still, at the end of the day both people should be working toward keeping their family life healthy and on track, and this has several aspects to it. there is housekeeping, yardwork, car maintenance, kids,the social calendar, all the work that goes along with the holidays,generating income, and spending time as a couple. out of all those areas where effort is required, only a very few of them can be handled completely by one person and still have the relationship stay healthy overall. it's also a matter of mutual trust and respect. you shouldn't have to be constantly checking each other to make sure everyone is pulling their equal share of the weight. you should just know that you can rely on one another to care about getting it done.

Posted on 06/20/2008 at 2:06:32 PM

 
To Gail Washington: aww, that's too bad. I have faith that there are teamwork-conscious Earthlings, just as there are good providers and monogamous men. One tip: guys are being mis-educated by women who offer too much, too easily, without expecting much of them. Another tip: really fine men may be older, shorter, and/or less wealthy than the spoiled brats.

Posted on 04/28/2008 at 12:04:38 PM

 
Loved this. Thanks :-)

Posted on 04/24/2008 at 8:04:21 PM

 
My sister told me "if he doesn't do it before you're married, he still won't after you're married." Luckily my brother-in-law is very helpful, resourceful and loves my sister. Therefore he believes in team work. They still clean their home (together). They have been married 26 years. I on the other hand have been single my entire adult life and do not think men like that are on this planet anymore. I'm not sure when we'll colonize Mars, but hopefully the guys up there are a bit more in tuned to "team work."

Posted on 04/10/2008 at 3:04:47 PM

 
In my family we seem to alternate with who is home more, right now that's me.

Posted on 04/10/2008 at 3:04:36 PM

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