African American Hairstyles: Dealing with Natural Hair

Don't Give Up on Having Natural Hair

African Americans have many options for styling hair. We can relax our hair making it permanently straight. We can weave our hair to make it longer. We can add extensions in twists or braids. We can wear realistic wigs to give our hair a break. In addition,
 natural styles have re-emerged into the forefront. We now wear afros, dreadlocks, and have learned to be happy with the way it grows from our scalps.

While wearing natural hair is more desirable and beautiful for African Americans, styling it on a daily basis can be quite difficult. Difficulty with finding attractive styles or with painful combing can cause you to get frustrated and to put chemicals in your hair. Of course satisfaction with processed hair does not last long and you have to start the journey all over again.

My hair has been natural for four hears and is medium length. If it were straightened, it would be considered long. This can be a difficult length because it is still hard to pull it back because it is very thick, but it is too long for an Afro as it fails to stand up. Here are some ideas I use to deal with natural African American hair.

Use conditioning treatments regularly. Conditioning treatments like cholesterol and hot oil treatments give African American hair the extra flexibility it needs so stay strong in harsh weather. It also makes combing it easier. A new conditioner I recently discovered is coconut oil, which softens hair considerably. I have learned to use it as a pre-shampoo treatment and to massage my scalp. I use other hair oils on my ends to make my hair shine.

Don't style hair daily. Find hairstyles that will hold for a couple of days. Wear a head covering at night to protect your hairstyle. I find that twisting the hair down each side with a barrette in the back is attractive and can hold for several days.

Related information
  • Don't comb African American Hair every day
  • Keep hairpins ready
  • Buy hair pins and wigs for bad hair days
 
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I've been through the weaves,braids, press and curls, all extensions my hair is not responding well to the weaves at all.So I know now to leave it out of my hair because my hair is to soft but I'm looking for someone very professional,creative,and honest to take care of my hair my email is cdekesha@yahoo.com contact me please with helpful tips and a number to serve my needs correctly thank you.

Posted on 02/12/2009 at 8:02:33 PM

I really enjoyed everything you said about your hair. I have began to learn my hair a little but I'm actually looking for a professional to give me tips and do my hair when I've ran out of patience please contact me on my email with your contact information please. Thank you very much and have a blessed evening.

Posted on 02/12/2009 at 8:02:29 PM

It's nice to read from another Black woman's perspective.

Posted on 04/14/2008 at 8:04:17 AM

Your response to Poinciana :~) I've struggled with my hair all my life----I've pretty much just given up. I had a weave last year and that really stimulated my hair to grow I had the weave redone about 3 times. After I had the weave taken out my hair started falling out-as it usually does. The one thing I can rely on is that my hair will fall out, and it will grow again. My hair is so thick it can fall out & I lose 1 third but it's so thick I still have 2 thirds to go before anyone would notice!!! I let my husband "help" me take the weave out. Big mistake!!! We got most of the hair out but when it came time to unbraid the hair it just seemed impossible. He snipped once with the scissors & as I held up the braid I saw my own hair cut out!!!!! I KNEW he was going to do that. He cut only one spot in the back that was short anyway. I LOVE having long hair via the weave but then I start worrying because I start thinking "this is really looking terrible I should take it out...."

Posted on 04/14/2008 at 8:04:28 AM

Ok I take that back, it is in the first paragraph... but the vast majority of people who read this know that the processed hair is permanently straight and new hair still has to be processed.

Posted on 04/10/2008 at 8:04:42 PM

I am aware that you cannot permanently straighten hair, even with chemicals because hair continues to grow. Why you would think I believe that is beyond me.

Posted on 04/10/2008 at 8:04:43 PM

Excellent article! I prefer natural hairstyles as well. :-)

Posted on 04/10/2008 at 4:04:39 PM

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