Jon & Kate + 8: Kate Supporters Are a Strange Breed

An Answer to the Many Comments Received About My Original Article

When I first sat down to write my original article about Jon and Kate Gosselin's TLC show Jon & Kate + 8 back in January, (http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/506701/should_jon_kate_plus_8_be_taken_off.html ) I never thought it would receive the attention and the public outcry
 that it received. I took a beating for voicing my negative opinion of Jon & Kate + 8, more specifically Kate, but I don't regret a single word of what I said. I've finally gotten around to reading some of the comments on the original article, and it left me wondering where all of the people with common sense are in the world!

Thanks to this unbeknownst experiment in human nature and online psychology, I've drawn a number of conclusions about the type of person that supports Kate. Apparently, for Kate fans, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. The following are some of my more amusing observations - consider this an extended answer to the hundreds of comments I received on my other article.

1. People assume I actually watch this show regularly. More accurately, they assume I sit there stewing and throwing popcorn at the TV out of anger at Kate. I've been told many times how I have no life and that I shouldn't watch the show if it aggravated me so much.

Now, here's the funny part. I don't watch the show. I've only seen it a couple times in passing and I've refused to watch it for a long time. My husband and I agreed that it is like watching a train wreck, and those are never fun.

After I wrote the article I was done with the whole topic, that is until hundreds of people (with lives, obviously) felt compelled to ruffle their feathers, stick out their cyber-chests and leave perfectly "sane" comments on my article. The irony here is thick.

2. People assume by my opinions that I'm "sanctimonious" or otherwise arrogant and that I'm a perfect wife and mother.

 
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Hm... The others are right. Reading this post, I got the sense that you are a very self-centered person (which is funny, because you are bashing on Kate for these very same reasons). I'd also say this whole article makes a pretty weak argument, even amidst all your great witticisms, because all you do is bash on the Kate supporters. If you want the Kate supporters to see your point of view, I don't think calling them out on it, (saying they are hypocrites or essentially dumb for liking her) will help you make your point. I'm not a mindless Kate supporter, but I'm not a hater as well. I'm simply trying to point out these things as a neutral person. What it all comes down to is you're entitled to your own opinion, and others are to theirs. If you want others to consider your points, it is very, very unwise to treat the readers as if they were retarded. If you're going to rewrite this with those things in mind, I look forward to it. =]

Posted on 04/06/2009 at 10:04:56 PM

Holy cow! Who put you on your pedestal? Talk about being judgmental. You do the things you accuse Kate of, such as think anyone who has a different opinion than you is wrong. You are basing all of your judgments on snippets of their lives. Maybe, since you are so unbelievably wonderful, you should offer to instruct her the proper way to behave?

Posted on 04/02/2009 at 12:04:30 PM

THANK YOU!!!!! This artical sums up EXACTLY how I feel about Kate and her fans.

Posted on 02/06/2009 at 2:02:59 PM

Thanks for the great article! Anyone who thinks the marriage between Jon and Kate is something to look up to emulate has a pretty twisted view of love and marriage. I'm married and I'm a mom and I'm embarassed for Jon and those children. Kate needs professional help. No one would EVER allow the shoe to be on the other foot and watch a husband say the things she says. Everyone would be up in arms about emotional abuse. She is greedy, selfish and completely unaware of how lucky she is to have had eight healthy children. She takes the world for granted, uses people and throws them away when she gets what she wants. She needs a "reality" check and this show needs to be cancelled so these kids can have some semblance of a normal life. The other shoe will drop...mark my words.

Posted on 08/31/2008 at 8:08:20 AM

This article is nothing more than an attempt to cash in on the page views. The original article made a big stink, and comments equal page views. It's all about the money. Give it a rest. This is beyond ridiculous.

Posted on 08/29/2008 at 2:08:36 PM

I almost can't take reading anything more about the Gosselins. Yeah, its true, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, if you're someone that doesn't see anything out of line. As far as Kate having a parenting style that works for her, as one comment stated,..lets just see what the kid's opinion will be when they are grown and have the freedom and maturity to do and think whatever they wish. Some things have a way of back-firing, no, EXPLODING, in people's faces years later. And as for the notion of "having 8 children and attempting to do what she does", I would love to be so pampered and have so much help! People aren't watching the show carefully enough and remembering the hired help, as well as volunteers. I'm not bashing Kate, lets just say I know the difference between having a discerning eye, and passing judgement-and there is a difference. She's not a great mom, with all things considered, she's average.

Posted on 08/25/2008 at 10:08:20 AM

I am a mother of 3 and also a Christian. I watched a few episodes because I wanted to get some ideas of things to do with my kids and I thought this show would offer that. No Christian family would allow their children to be filmed in underwear and throwing temper tantrums. When their children strike each other, no one sits and talks with them about this. To simply tell them to go to time out is not enough. Sometimes I notice that the children must go and say they are sorry and hug , that part is great. However I have never seen the parenting part. Often a couple of the children are focused on when they are angry and yelling at their parents. There is never a discussion with the children about speaking properly to their parents. Also, the parents seem to laugh at the matter. This is so sad. Although I find the children to be adorable, I do hope that PEOPLE stop tuning in so that these children can go about their private lives. I feel that in the future they will be embarrase

Posted on 08/23/2008 at 1:08:25 AM

. I have never seen her be out of line with the children. People have their own way of talking to or disciplining their children. How they disciplining and raise their children work for them. They have really good children. Yes they throw tantrums, scream and whine, as do all children their age. But overall they are well behaved children. So, KATE!!! and Jon must be doing something right. Lay off of her. Or better yet, have 8 children and attempt to do what she does. Let's see how perfect you and your life would be! (my posts are listed backwards so please read from the bottom up)

Posted on 08/17/2008 at 9:08:56 AM

I had to learn that over the summer. My husband works for The Fellowship of Christian Athletes (FCA) and in June he had to direct a sports camp in Italy. I was left at home by myself with the kids for two weeks. I was a little worried because he had never been gone that long before. So, I decided that like Jon and Kate's home, my house needed to be on strict schedule. The time my husband was away went great. Because of the schedule I planned out, I was finally able to get in bed before 9pm. That was totally new to me, the small babies would usually keep me up much later (11pm-12am). With that said, although I can't relate to Kate on the level of 8 children, having more than 2 is a big job. And she handles it well. And Jon handles his role as the father well also.

Posted on 08/17/2008 at 9:08:49 AM

Do you really think that Jon is that weak, that he allows Kate to walk all over him? Although it is reality television, it is still television people! Many parts have been edited so that the most interesting parts are seen. We viewers don't get to see every single detail of their lives. As far as Kate's OCD is concerned, with eight children, someone has to step up and make sure their lives aren't totally out of control. Think about it. If you had eight children, would your house be that clean? Would you be able to cook every meal for your family? Would you have a schedule that allowed you at least ten minutes of quiet time to yourself? I have nothing but total respect for Kate and Jon as well. My husband and I have 4 children ages, 8, 6, 2, and 8 months. Our house can get extremely hectic at times as well. And I have been known to have a case of OCD myself. But with a big family it really helps to have some type of order.

Posted on 08/17/2008 at 9:08:58 AM

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