Sexual Responsibility of a Christian Married Couple

Sexual Responsibility of a Christian Married Couple

Sex, in general, is such a difficult topic to discuss because it is of such personal nature. The fact remains, this topic cannot be overlooked as it is one of the main causes of divorce today. In the beginning of a relationship both men and women, try their best to please their mate sexually but as the marriage gets on in years, both men and women forget that those needs still must be met.

On most occasions when this topic comes up around men at church, it seems to me that the finger of blame is often pointed at women. Instead of pointing fingers, we need to find solutions and advice that will help resolve and improve a married couple's sexual relationship.

Various things come up when speaking of sexual needs and wants by both men and women. Below are various subjects/issues that have been mentioned among couples:

Spontaneity

Sexual Positions/locations

Oral Sex

Masturbation

Anal Sex

Pornography

Fetishes

Dress

Hair

Smell

Well there are probably many other things that can be issues in a marriage. Let's face it no matter what the problem, there definitely is a solution. Within reason, of course, whatever you or your partner are interested in, should be discussed so that your partner can understand how to fulfill that need.

For instance, if your husband wants you to wear a sexy outfit to bed, wear it. If your wife wants you to make love to her in the shower , then do so. If there is anything that conflicts with the Word of God, both must sit down and discuss it and come to an understanding that certain things should be left alone.

For example, if your spouse can only get excited by pornography, this is a visible problem. There can be many reasons, but the main reason the person looks at pornography is because they are not getting what they want sexually from their spouse. Communication is very important. Husbands and Wives have a responsibility to each other. We must open up and tell our spouse what we want and need.