5 Ways to Instantly Attract More Men

Most women don't realize they have everything they need to attract a man. Just the fact that they are women by nature makes them attractive to men. Your natural softness is beautiful to a man. Your smile can ease a man's tension; your laugh can lighten his load. Your tenderness is what a man needs more than anything because the world asks him to be strong and capable. There aren't very many safe places for him to show his vulnerabilities and weaknesses. You are that soft haven he's been needing. Maybe you're not a "10" in your eyes, but here's news to you: Some man out there considers you their ideal woman. Stop watching movies and reading magazines and deciding that what you see there is every man's ideal. Instead, go sit down at a park bench in your city or in the mall and watch couples go by. You'll see every kind of woman out there. Men fall in love with all kinds of women, and while you're sitting there, you'll notice there probably wasn't a Heidi Klum look-a-like who walked by.

I'm going to say this more than once because it is that important. Men love confident women; not haughty or proud, because those kind of women are actually the most insecure. True confidence goes hand in hand with humility. It's your attitude that you are a good catch and someone is bound to notice but at the same time you're also human and flawed and someone's going to notice that too. But in the end, it's okay. You treat yourself and others with love and grace and you expect others to do the same with you. Now here's what to do when you go out in public that will instantly set you above the crowd.

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