How to Keep Intimacy Alive in Your Long Distance Relationship

Sexy Tips for LDR Lovers

All romantic relationships require feelings of intimacy to survive. Without feelings of connectedness and, yes, at least a bit of sexual chemistry romantic relationships will whither and die. When a couple lives together intimacy can be as simple as a morning kiss or a leisurely caress. When lovers live apart maintaining intimacy is not as easy. Here are some suggestions to help you keep your flame burning across the miles.

Real Time Connectedness

Invest in a web-cam and a microphone for each of you. You can use your web-cam and microphone combo to go on virtual dates as chaste or as naughty as you like from watching a movie "together" to engaging in mutual self stimulation with visual and vocal encouragement. You can also just leave the cam on as you go about your regular activities so you can see what the other is doing for a sense of connection.

You can also build a sense of connectivity by sharing things though you are far apart. You can rent the same movie and agree to watch it at the same time then later talk about it via phone, email, or chat. You can both go outside and stargaze while on the phone together. If you live in the same time zone you can watch sunrises and sunsets "together." You can do this by phoning each other and talking, by web-cam, or simply by agreeing to do the same thing at the same time.

Pieces of You

Make a custom sex toy cast from your own body to send to your partner. Ask your lover to think of you when she or he uses it.

Send your partner an item of jewelry or outer garment which would instantly remind him or her of you that he or she can wear to feel connected to you. You can also send or give a piece of worn clothing to carry some of your scent. A pair of your sexiest panties mailed in a double Ziploc bag should put a smile on his face.

Invest in some inexpensive digital voice recorders. Record loving, naughty, or sexy messages on them and ship them to each other for on-demand listening.

Take erotic photos or video of yourself and send them to your lover. For added impact you can send your erotic photos in a frame with a digital recording feature.



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