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Virginia Supreme Court Decides Fate of 8-year Old Isabella

By April Lorier, published Apr 28, 2008
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Isabella Miller, an eight year old girl, is a big deal in the Virginia Supreme Court. Why? Because her mother, ex-lesbian, Lisa Miller - now a born-again Christian who left the homosexual lifestyle six years ago - is fighting for custody against a person who is not Isabella's father. In fact, this person is virtually unknown by little Isabella, is not an adoptive parent, nor is she biologically related to Isabella in any way. She is lesbian Janet Jenkins, a woman with whom Lisa had at one time been homosexually involved.

By Lisa's own account, emotional problems brought on by a series of events - including abandonment by her father, abuse by her mentally ill mother and a decade long struggle with alcoholism now overcome - eventually led Lisa Miller into the lesbian lifestyle. In 1999, Lisa began a homosexual relationship with Jenkins after coming out of a legitimate marriage that ended in divorce.

In 2000, soon after Vermont became the first state to legalize homosexual "civil unions," Miller and Jenkins made a weekend trek from Virginia to Vermont to enter into such a "union." They then headed back to Virginia where they lived together.

In 2001, Lisa was artificially inseminated after the two decided to raise a child in a, deliberately fatherless home environment. Isabella now had two "mommies".

In August of 2002, Miller and little Isabella, then just a few months old, moved to Vermont with Jenkins. However, things were unstable, and according to Lisa Miller, Jenkins was physically and emotionally abusive. "It was a troubled relationship from the beginning," Lisa told World Magazine in a 2007 interview. "The relationship did not improve, as Jenkins - working as a nightshift security guard - grew increasingly bitter and controlling," reported World.

About a year later, when Isabella was less than a year and a half old, Lisa ended her lesbian relationship, took her daughter back home to Virginia and filed for dissolution of her homosexual "civil union" back in Vermont.

Takeaways
  • All Isabella knows is that she has to visit a woman she doesn't know.
  • Is this but a hammer for gay rights activists to force gay marriage?
  • Christians gathered to pray outside Virginia Supreme Court as arguments were heard.
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Yeshuan and Pattie, it makes me sad, too. More and more, the innocence of our children is being stolen. I wonder if that makes God cry?

Posted on 05/01/2008 at 9:05:34 PM

 
WOW so sad hope all goes well for this precious little girl, great reporting!!

Posted on 05/01/2008 at 5:05:21 PM

 
Unfortunately, whenever adults are being selfish, it is often the children in their lives that suffer the consequences. It makes me sad when children get caught in the middle of any kind of break up.

Posted on 05/01/2008 at 12:05:08 PM

 
Thank you, Jill, Cheryl, Judy, and Joshua for stopping to read and comment. I just love reading articulate comments! My son worked for NBC for a while, and he told me that the bias in the media is not so much how something is reported, but much more about WHAT gets reported. He was told several times that he could not report on stories similar to Isabella's story. -------- I know that God is still in control, so I'm not worried a whole lot about Isabella. I know if the VA Supreme Court decides against her and her mother, it definitely WILL be going to the United States Supreme Court. THEN it might get a little coverage!

Posted on 04/29/2008 at 3:04:30 PM

 
Thanks for covering this, April; Like Sheryl, I am surprised that I have not heard about this story on any of the major news networks; in fact, it is the first I have heard of the story and I watch both cable and broadcast network news all the time. God bless....

Posted on 04/29/2008 at 12:04:20 PM

 
In cases like these, I am always reminded that what the courts decide does not always reflect what people would want or believe is ethical. I tend to see how they interpret these things in light of the Constitution and what new precedents are set - or not. Interesting article about a situation that is unfolding.

Posted on 04/29/2008 at 11:04:22 AM

 
It's a shame that two men or two women want to play "house" and have a real child that is pawned off on it. It's also a shame that the DSM psychiatric handbook had to remove homosexuality from it because of the gay movement. The only movement I see is more corrupt people who are now pawning children. It's the children in the middle of these kinds of messes. I am so sorry for the child, but sorry for the "parents" too because they didn't know what they were getting into. Thanks for this piece!

Posted on 04/29/2008 at 5:04:05 AM

 
I must play devil's advocate here. If these two women are in a civil union, they must expect the dissolution of that union to carry the same weight as a traditional marriage. If Jenkins were a man, and demanded custody, would there be such an uproar? Still, in either instance, it is wrong to use the child as a weapon, which is what Jenkins appears to be doing. It sounds like she cares for her own selfish desires more than the welfare of the child.

Posted on 04/29/2008 at 4:04:33 AM

 
Thank you, Kim, Skye, Kimberly, Sheryl, Joy and Kathie for your comments. This story really grieves me. And you're right, Sheryl, it is not being covered by the general media! That sends a message to me, I can tell you! I know Concerned Women of America is very involved in this story, as is the ACLJ. I do hope Christians like you, Kim, will pray for Isabella and her mother. Christians are just an easy target these days, and I think Lisa is very brave for pursuing this to the VA Supreme Court. ------ I will do a followup on this story, I promise!

Posted on 04/28/2008 at 10:04:59 PM

 
Gosh !!...this is so sad..I hope that Isabella will be emotionally ok after all of this..I'm sure there will be counselers down the road for them both though..please do a follow up on the outcome...Excellent Story !!..really great to hear that a person that has lived in the homosexual lifestyle can change..but with the Grace of God..anything is possible !!!...

Posted on 04/28/2008 at 9:04:50 PM

 
Very interesting story. Maybe you will be able to write a follow-up on this one.

Posted on 04/28/2008 at 9:04:56 PM

 
Thanks for writing this - it's a brave piece. This incident should be a big national story, but what is called the "Mainstream media" is hardly picking it up. Only the more conservative websites. Liberty Counsel is working on this case and trying to get more attention.

Posted on 04/28/2008 at 8:04:37 PM

 
Why always the children? Wish I had a magic wand - thanks for the article - great job

Posted on 04/28/2008 at 6:04:56 PM

 
great reporting on a a very sad story

Posted on 04/28/2008 at 6:04:27 PM

 
What a sad story. Children are definitely the ones who suffer in these situations. Thanks for sharing Isabella's story. I just prayed for her and Lisa.

Posted on 04/28/2008 at 5:04:07 PM

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