When Your Child Doesn't Cooperate with the Weaning Process

One of the most potentially challenging aspects of weaning is working with your child when they are not willing to cooperate.

There are several reasons that your child may not want to cooperate with your weaning strategies. It is possible that your child may need a little more time. Some children are more rapidly weaned than others. If your child is throwing severe tantrums, not sleeping, or having abrupt mood swings, it might be in both of your best interests to slow the weaning process down to a crawl in order to ensure eventual success.

There are several things you can do to encourage your kid to cooperate. First and foremost, you'll want to encourage him or her to be independent. Applaud your child whenever possible, especially when he or she shows signs of independence, such as attempting to feed him- or herself. This will help your child feel more confident and interested in weaning. Be sure to exaggerate your pleasure and happiness when your kid takes steps to wean and eat on his or her own.

Another strategy you might try is having another person introduce foods, whether solid or milk, to your child. This will help distract him or her and divert attention to someone other than you.

Many children come to associate breastfeeding with love and find comfort in mom. It is often necessary to find a substitute lovee, such as a stuffed animal or blanket, so that there is something to nuzzle up to in times of anxiety or stress besides your breast. You might try picking out a favorite lovee together, and bring the lovee with you when breastfeeding. Your child will come to associate comfort and love with the lovee and not only your breasts.

Be sure that your child is also getting enough to eat. Some kids resist weaning because they are still hungry. Offer solids and supplemental milk or formula when necessary to ensure that your son or daughter isn't resisting simply because he or she is hungry.