Should You Have Your Wedding on A Friday?

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Fridays Are More Fun!

At first I thought it was just wrong.
A Friday night wedding? What about work or school? Gift opening on Saturday?

But we were on a time crunch, with help from the Army, so we went for Friday, July 21, 2006. All said and done, the day was perfect. And I wouldn't have done it any other way. Or day. And here is
 why...

Five pros to a Friday wedding:

1) The day isn't quite as long - in a good way. With a Saturday 2 p.m. ceremony, pictures start at 11 which means hair starts at 7 a.m. and dancing until midnight after that early start can make for a very long day. With a 4 or 5 p.m. ceremony on Friday, you can sleep in, take your time and still have your dancing shoes on until they kick you out. Your wedding day will exhaust you emotionally and physically and you will want to be rested and relaxed.

2) Discounts! We found that reception halls, photographers, DJs, and even limo companies offer discounts on Fridays to pull more business from their booked Saturdays. Our reception hall offered a Friday special that included a plated dinner, champagne for all guests, cake cutting, linens, tax and gratuity for an all-in-one fixed price. Whereas on Saturdays, the menu is al a carte plus champagne, tax and gratuity. We saved over $2,000 on our reception, DJ and limo costs with a Friday wedding.

3) Atop discounts, Fridays offer more availablity. If you are not planning a year or two in advance, good places and companies are often hard to find with open Saturdays - especially during the summer. Our hall and photographer were booked solid on Saturdays this summer but had several Friday openings. And we are glad they did! Fridays give you more choices - with discounts!

Published by Kendra Lohmer
I am a recent college grad in search of a career in communications/marketing, until then I am enjoying the life of a new Army wife - reading, traveling, cooking, sleeping in, walks, trying new restaurants an...  View profile
  
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I am having a Friday Evening Wedding. I am sooo looking forward to the 7:00pm (lit) ceremony. I think Fridays work well for people who are more so looking for simple elegance. If you are having a big production ceremony... probably not so much.
Actually, I've been to a couple of Friday night weddings and not so great. Not everyone has such and easy time getting work off, or also having to take unpaid time off. If you're in a financial situation where that doesn't affect you, great. But, I'm a single mother now and even a couple of hours unpaid is a hit for me. Then there was the rush hour traffic. Many people didn't make it on time and missed the ceremony. That was frustrating for everyone and there were a lot of hard feelings starting off that evening. Definitely not great. It's great for the vendors and venues who used to have a hard time booking those nights, but not so much for the guests trying to make it there on time.
I was debating a friday wedding also, but now it sounds great!
this article made me feel so much better! my fiance and i want to have a friday night wedding, but we kept getting tongue tied every time someone asked us accusingly 'why?! why friday night? why not saturday?!' this article gave me the confidence to answer 'let me give you five reasons...!' thanks!
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