Gospel Great Kirk Franklin and Wife Tammy Franklin Discuss Kirk's Porn Addiction

Grammy Winning Gospel Artist Kirk Franklin is Frank About His Marriage and Porn Addiction


Kirk Franklin is known for his energetic praise to God. Countless people has said how his music has uplifted-even changed- their lives, but Kirk Franklin had deeper problems in his life that he chose not to keep hidden in his closet.  Last year, Kirk Franklin told
Oprah Winfrey about his addiction to pornography.

Kirk Franklin told Lynn Norment, reporter for Ebony Magazine how he felt rejected as a young teenager. " [My Mother] didn't want me, she wanted an abortion." Kirk continued to say, "It's just amazing the things that can happen to a boy when he doesn't get the affirmation and the love he needs from his mother and father. And I never got that." He continued to talk about how he turned to promiscuity and his "little stash of magazines" He also shockingly told Norment that he became sexual at the age of 9 or 10.

Even after marriage to the very lovely Tammy Franklin, Kirk continued to watch pornography and had "unrealistic sexual expectations" for her.  Once Kirk told Tammy that he was addicted her response was surprising. She told Norment, "For him to tell me, to trust me, it brought us closer." She continues to say about her marriage to Kirk, "It's like as the years progress and you go through trials adn you go through what we went through, and other things, whether it involves children or heratache...I love this man today more then the day that we stood before our parents and God, it's just amazing."

On Kirk Franklin's new CD, Hero, he discusses his pain in his own creatively beautiful way in songs such as "Imagine Me" and "Let It go" He still gives praises to God and to Christ who he knows forgives him and helps him through his struggles and pains.Many people has come up to Kirk Franklin and told him that he saved them when he was so open about himself and his problems. Many people, like myself, no longer condemn themselves for their mistakes, when someone who seems to be so close to God can still struggle with problems.

Kirk says, “There is so much fakery; I saw so many false faces growing up in the church. I didn’t want to be a false face.”

 
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His wife is so strong money or not she stuck through it and you NEVER kow how bad it hurts to see someone you love and care for turning to porn instead of turning to you or the Lord especially when he's supposed to be preaching and leading. It breaks your heart so bad that you just want to die. I wouldn't wish that on anyone and at least Kirk had the strength to be honest about his issue and not lie like many men.

Posted on 05/19/2009 at 4:05:07 PM

Yea, I bet his wife would not have stayed with him if he wasn't so famous. Some people just like the spot light. I am not judging nobody I am just being real. Don't come at me with a sad story about why you do the things you do because everything we do is a choice. I struggled with stuff too but after I received Jesus in my heart for real, old things were past away and all things became new and all things was of God. Roman 8 sin has no stronghold on you, JOHN; anyone who continues to sin even after being saved is a lie, and never knew God, because sin is of the devil. And Greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world.

Posted on 03/28/2009 at 1:03:43 AM

Hey, DEPRESSED. I also deal with pornography as well as lust, even stuff from my past, more recently. I want healing from it and I want deliverance from it as well. A few things I can recommend to you are to find an accountability partner. This person will have to hold you accountable to the things you are doing on-line. Another thing I can recommend is a website called "X3 Watch.com". You can download the free version and this will report bi-weekly or monthly ANY websites that may even SEEM like pornographic websites. A third thing I can recommend is to get an online filter: add ANY ANY ANY KIND of websites that would even SEEM like pornographic websites. Fourthly, something that has helped me as well is to not use your computer or whatever it is that you are using after a certain time. When do you face the temptation to look at porn? Day? Night? When no one's around? When it's quiet? When you are bored? If it's any of these or a combo of these, then watch out for these checkpoints.

Posted on 02/28/2009 at 4:02:10 PM

Hey, Old. I also deal with pornography as well as lust, even stuff from my past, more recently. I want healing from it and I want deliverance from it as well. A few things I can recommend to you are to find an accountability partner. This person will have to hold you accountable to the things you are doing on-line. Another thing I can recommend is a website called "X3 Watch.com". You can download the free version and this will report bi-weekly or monthly ANY websites that may even SEEM like pornographic websites. A third thing I can recommend is to get an online filter: add ANY ANY ANY KIND of websites that would even SEEM like pornographic websites. Fourthly, something that has helped me as well is to not use your computer or whatever it is that you are using after a certain time. When do you face the temptation to look at porn? Day? Night? When no one's around? When it's quiet? When you are bored? If it's any of these or a combo of these, then watch out for these checkpoints.

Posted on 02/28/2009 at 3:02:00 PM

Hey, JesusSaves. I also deal with pornography as well as lust, even stuff from my past, more recently. I want healing from it and I want deliverance from it as well. A few things I can recommend to you are to find an accountability partner. This person will have to hold you accountable to the things you are doing on-line. Another thing I can recommend is a website called "X3 Watch.com". You can download the free version and this will report bi-weekly or monthly ANY websites that may even SEEM like pornographic websites. A third thing I can recommend is to get an online filter: add ANY ANY ANY KIND of websites that would even SEEM like pornographic websites. Fourthly, something that has helped me as well is to not use your computer or whatever it is that you are using after a certain time. When do you face the temptation to look at porn? Day? Night? When no one's around? When it's quiet? When you are bored? If it's any of these or a combo of these, then watch out for these checkpoints.

Posted on 02/28/2009 at 3:02:18 PM

I am a 23 year old female and I occasionally watch lesbian porn and get really turned on. I have never dated a woman, I am heterosexual and have a boyfriend of 9 years, but I do have sexual fantasies involving women. I know it is a serious sin and I feel awful about it. I was baptized at 18 but never really repented. If I stop watching it, will the desires eventually go away? I want to be saved and forgiven, I don't want to go to Hell.

Posted on 01/15/2009 at 8:01:59 PM

I'm 18years old and in college and I addicted to porn and I always catch myself when I am alone watching it. It started when I was about 10 my brother had one of those tapes and when he showed me it begin. My mother never really showed me love and my father was never around so I never had nobody to really talk to so I just kept it to myself. I am virgin and I never really had a girl friend because I am afraid and the more I try to stop I will last for about two weeks and I back at it again. I miss the way it used to when I was normal and a child please help because the child in me want to come out and I need him.......

Posted on 11/02/2008 at 8:11:51 AM

CRY IF YOU MOST, BUT DON'T STOP BELIEVING GOD!!!. HE WILL COME THROUGH FOR YOU JUST REMAIN FAITHFUL.

Posted on 10/21/2008 at 2:10:29 PM

Yes!! God is still faithful. Growing up I once struggled with the addiction of pornography until I god saved ( REPENTED OF MY SINS, BAPTIZE IN THE WONDERFUL NAME OF JESUS AND WAS FILLED WITH THE SPIRIT OF PROMISE Acts 2:38) at first, I had difficulties and many questions that I asked the lord, let me tell you he did answer my prayer for deliverance. He only ask of us to cast ALL Your cares upon him, for he careth for YOU!!!!!! 1peter 5:7 if you believe it, then why not receive it in JESUS NAME. ALL THING ARE POSSIBLE WITH GOD IF YOU ONLY BELIEVE. God richly bless you.

Posted on 10/21/2008 at 2:10:00 PM

I guess I'm the only one that never heard of this article. It's one that is really touching me because I'm going thru a thing with my husband currently with addiction to porn and the internet. How do I overcome it? I know it will take for him to admit that he has a problem first. Is our marriage able to be saved?

Posted on 10/12/2008 at 4:10:54 PM

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