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Gospel Great Kirk Franklin and Wife Tammy Franklin Discuss Kirk's Porn Addiction

Grammy Winning Gospel Artist Kirk Franklin is Frank About His Marriage and Porn Addiction

By Telika Howard, published Oct 19, 2006
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Kirk Franklin is known for his energetic praise to God. Countless people has said how his music has uplifted-even changed- their lives, but Kirk Franklin had deeper problems in his life that he chose not to keep hidden in his closet.  Last year, Kirk Franklin told Oprah Winfrey about his addiction to pornography.

Kirk Franklin told Lynn Norment, reporter for Ebony Magazine how he felt rejected as a young teenager. " [My Mother] didn't want me, she wanted an abortion." Kirk continued to say, "It's just amazing the things that can happen to a boy when he doesn't get the affirmation and the love he needs from his mother and father. And I never got that." He continued to talk about how he turned to promiscuity and his "little stash of magazines" He also shockingly told Norment that he became sexual at the age of 9 or 10.

Even after marriage to the very lovely Tammy Franklin, Kirk continued to watch pornography and had "unrealistic sexual expectations" for her.  Once Kirk told Tammy that he was addicted her response was surprising. She told Norment, "For him to tell me, to trust me, it brought us closer." She continues to say about her marriage to Kirk, "It's like as the years progress and you go through trials adn you go through what we went through, and other things, whether it involves children or heratache...I love this man today more then the day that we stood before our parents and God, it's just amazing."

On Kirk Franklin's new CD, Hero, he discusses his pain in his own creatively beautiful way in songs such as "Imagine Me" and "Let It go" He still gives praises to God and to Christ who he knows forgives him and helps him through his struggles and pains.Many people has come up to Kirk Franklin and told him that he saved them when he was so open about himself and his problems. Many people, like myself, no longer condemn themselves for their mistakes, when someone who seems to be so close to God can still struggle with problems.

Kirk says, “There is so much fakery; I saw so many false faces growing up in the church. I didn’t want to be a false face.”

Gospel Great Kirk Franklin and Wife Tammy Franklin Discuss Kirk's Porn Addiction

Kirk and Tammy Franklin on November cover of Ebony Magazine

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I'm married, just turnd 30 this year and I am still struggling with porn. When I get mad, frustrated or really depressed I give in to my temptation. I really need help. I have excepted GOD as my Lord and Savior but it seems like my struggle is just getting harder to control. I'm wondering if there is anyone out there that can give me some tips on how to get rid of my addiction. I know that the Lord has many blessings that he just wants to pour into my life but I know my addiction is the barrier that's holding them up. I'm just so sick of myself for doing it. I ask GOD for forgivness when it happens and pray for strength to stop but it seems like I find myself right back at square one again. I commend Kirk for coming out because I know now that I'm not the only person who has this problem and it takes a real man to recognize his own faults. I just need some help overcoming this sinful way.

Posted on 07/22/2008 at 2:07:36 AM

 
HEY I'M A 19 YEAR OLD FEMALE THAT IS ADDICTED TO PORN AND SEX. AS A CHILD WAS SEXUALLY MOLESTED BY MY FATHER AT THE AGE OF 8 THEN RAPED AT 11 AND 12 THEN IT'S BEEN SO EVER SINCE. I HAVE SEX WHEN I'M BORED, LONELY, STRESSED, DEPRESSED, OR EVEN CONFUSED. MY FIRST PORN ARTICLE CAME FROM UNDER MY FATHER'S BED AFTER HIM AND MY MOM SPLIT UP I'M ALSO ADDICTED TO CUTTING MYSELF WHEN I REALLY GET PISSED. I'VE ALSO HAD SEX FOR MONEY ONCE OR TWICE ALREADY

Posted on 06/07/2008 at 2:06:09 AM

 
Hey, thank you all of you, you put up bible verses and testified because its really encouraged me. I've been struggling with pornography since I was eleven. It wasn't my parents fault, my brothers, no one. I just discovered my own body and educated myself. Eight years later and I thought it would be over now. I have stopped so many times, sometimes having like 4 5 months inbetween. But as soon as I get alittle depressed or upset... its almost like I'm saying God look what you allowed me to do! I know its wrong, I too am a Pastors kid, raised in the church. I commited to Christ from a young age, and I know its hurting Him. When I think about all the time I have wasted, all the tears i've cried, all the time I've said sorry. I have such a gift and purpose inside of me, and I want God to say well done me at the end of all this. I'm sick of thinking I've killed this giant, and then just to go back. I'm at university now, and i'm on my own mostly all the time. Just tonight, after delving in

Posted on 06/01/2008 at 8:06:15 PM

 
I'm 18 and have been struggling w/ porn since I was very young. I am a pastors kid and I agree with jb when it was said that you don't want to tell anyone about this because your ashamed and you want to keep the respect of those around you. I woke up this morning and just broke down and was really praying to God that he would stop the addition, the masterbation, everything. I have faith that God can do anything and I know I will overcome this. I just wanted to thank you guys for being honest and writing down the truth so that others like us can have faith and know that God can do all things. If you're reading this Pray for me. God is good and I'll make it through this. More so now that I have the words and scriptures found at this website to keep with me always. Thanks again and God Bless

Posted on 03/22/2008 at 1:03:16 PM

 
I'm 18 and have been struggling w/ porn since I was very young. I am a pastors kid and I agree with jb when it was said that you don't want to tell anyone about this because your ashamed and you want to keep the respect of those around you. I woke up this morning and just broke down and was really praying to God that he would stop the addition, the masterbation, everything. I have faith that God can do anything and I know I will overcome this. I just wanted to thank you guys for being honest and writing down the truth so that others like us can have faith and know that God can do all things. If you're reading this Pray for me. God is good and I'll make it through this. More so now that I have the words and scriptures found at this website to keep with me always. Thanks again and God Bless I want to know how kirk overcome his addiction bcus i have de same problem.i found hidden porn belonging to my dad about 6 - 7 yrs now n he is dead n gone but my addiction still lives i have stop

Posted on 03/22/2008 at 1:03:17 PM

 
Hi, JB! I also came across a stash of pornographic magazines under a friend's couch when studying for my first year at university, and was instantly hooked for about three (3) years! Both my friend (male) and I (female) were (and still are) born-again Christians at the time. Luckily for me, I am very honest to God and myself; something my friends and family are very uncomfortable with. So, along with jealousy, I admitted that pornography was an addiction and embarked on a concious journey to get rid of it out of my system. I made a concious decision to not read, look at or entertain any book, movie or conversation that was pornographic in nature. That does not mean I shied away from talking about sex, which is pure before God. I got actively involved in res and church activities. That occupied my mind so much that, before I knew it, all thoughts related to pornography were wiped out of my mind without me ever noticing. Today, I refuse to participate in any activity that is porn

Posted on 02/27/2008 at 5:02:15 AM

 
I want to know how kirk overcome his addiction bcus i have de same problem.i found hidden porn belonging to my dad about 6 - 7 yrs now n he is dead n gone but my addiction still lives i have stopped for like 5 different times but seem to start all over again .i cant admit to any one bcus i am so ashamed of it n well respected in church n da society am very young now n afraid this May end like kirks since he is my rolemodel jb

Posted on 11/19/2007 at 7:11:00 PM

 
Thanks kirk.You are the best gospel singer i ever seen. I love ur courage of u been able to say that. At the age of 10 years i have been having problem with sex and porn, but thanks to God almight I am still fighting against it, but now i am a 17 year old girl who is now getting free and lose from that disease. I gave my life totally to christ and i can asure u that he has been faithful.I want to tell everybody out there that if i can make, i know u can as well. May God Bless U All.

Posted on 11/01/2007 at 8:11:00 AM

 
OH mY gosh, i LUV kIRK franKLIn so MuCH!

Posted on 10/21/2007 at 7:10:00 PM

 
I like his courage and sincerity. not many christians would go to the extent of exposing their dark side of life. It doesn't matter what or how other people feel about him, all that matters is how he feels about himself and how he think God feels about him. Going to the extent of confession means he first went through repentance and God forgives those who repents truly.

Posted on 10/06/2007 at 6:10:00 AM

 
But, I just want to say to T. that it can be done. God's power and love are the only things that can break that demonic hold in your life. First of all, taking the opportunity away is a good first stepafter going to the Lord and asking with faith and expectation for him to heal you life and heart.) Getting rid of the opportunity can be throwing away any magazines or movies and maybe getting a parental conrol situation on the internet. I can't even watch rate-R movies to this day because they bring temptation and lust back into my life. I had to pray for God to give me the strength to close those open doors I had made for sin. Taking the steps to control your flesh is very important. Make time to get in the Bible. When God began transforming me from somebody who knew it was wrong and felt condemned to a person who was in battle and ready to be victorious over sin He brought me to Romans 6. This book was the beginning of getting this demonic hold broken off of my life. Also t

Posted on 09/30/2007 at 5:09:00 PM

 
I'm 18 years old now and and at the age of 12 and 1/2 I found myself as a young girl addicted to pornography. It was introduced to me by a neighbor-girl who's parents didn't keep theirs hid well. After that I slowly and surely found traces of it in my own home(having older brothers and all) and it completely snowballed. It's crazy how easy it is to find porn when nobody expects to have to worry about that with you. God brought people into my life that brought me to a holy ghost church and I gave my life to Christ at the age of 14 and frankly I struggled with it all the way through highschool. I gave my life to Christ about 5 years ago and I feel that I was truly striving for a righteous life, but I couldn't honestly claim true victory over this sin until last year(since I still struggled with the lust and images that is left me). Nobody knows what I went through; not My parents, my friends, or my christian family. I talked to somebody about it for the first time ever today, isn'

Posted on 09/30/2007 at 5:09:00 PM

 
I'm 18 years old now and and at the age of 12 and 1/2 I found myself as a young girl addicted to pornography. It was introduced to me by a neighbor-girl who's parents didn't keep theirs hid well. After that I slowly and surely found traces of it in my own home(having older brothers and all) and it completely snowballed. It's crazy how easy it is to find porn when nobody expects to have to worry about that with you. God brought people into my life that brought me to a holy ghost church and I gave my life to Christ at the age of 14 and frankly I struggled with it all the way through highschool. I gave my life to Christ about 5 years ago and I feel that I was truly striving for a righteous life, but I couldn't honestly claim true victory over this sin until last year(since I still struggled with the lust and images that is left me). Nobody knows what I went through; not My parents, my friends, or my christian family. I talked to somebody about it for the first time ever today, isn'

Posted on 09/30/2007 at 5:09:00 PM

 
Yea I once was addicted to pornography i struggled with it for years not having a father to teach me when i was young about sex i learned it from the internet, i got married 22 years of age and still struggled with it i grew up in a christian family and i redicated my life to the lord. Phil 4:13 helped me through this and i realized me doing these sinful deeds would allow another door to open i then started struggling with fear one day i just brokedown in church and confessed all to the lord its been months since i dedicated my life back to the Lord and stopped looking at porn its ot always the devil who tempts u but sometimes you have to bind your Flesh as well, its you who also has control of what you watch my advice is to look away of course you will be tempted but mu life has been so much better ever since i let God lead my path

Posted on 08/08/2007 at 5:08:00 PM

 
I am addicted to pornograph and I know it is wrong and I dont want to wach it or look at but I do want to do it. If that makes any scence. I just want to know how kirk really stoped wanting to do somthing that he like so much. because I have a good looking wife and two good looking kids and I dont want them to see that i have this problem that i am so ashemed of. And I dont want to hurt god any more with my sin but it is really hard for me. I dont know what to do ?

Posted on 02/24/2007 at 12:02:00 AM

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