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Doctor's Mis-Diagnosis of Friend's Cancer Proved Fatal: A Story in Memory of T.J. Snow

By Charlene Collins, published May 14, 2008
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If you live long enough you may get cancer; after age 65 you have at least a 67 percent chance of dying with cancer. We all know someone who has been diagnosed with breast, lung, prostate or colorectal cancer. Cancer seems to be so common now that we need to be screened with our yearly checkups to find it early, if we have it.

Sometimes we don't find out until much later that we have cancer. My friend T.J. had a terrible headache that wouldn't go away. He went to the emergency room and was diagnosed with a sinus infection. He followed up with his family doctor as he was directed to, complaining that he was feeling worse. He reported that not only was his head in terrible pain, but he was having nausea and vomiting. He was still treated with sinus medications and antibiotics on the premise he had a sinus infection.

A couple of weeks passed and he took the medicine as prescribed; but he was still getting worse. He was losing his balance and couldn't walk without assistance. His eyesight was also impaired by this time. Something was definitely wrong. Then one night an ambulance had to be called for him because he had a seizure. He was taken again to the emergency room, but this time his wife insisted they take him to Athens Regional Medical Center in Athens, which is the next city over from where he lived. Tests were then done and they confirmed T.J. had an inoperable brain tumor.

Misdiagnoses happen quite often in the beginning. The doctors treat the symptoms that are present at the time, and the symptoms may resemble something as benign as a sinus infection. This is why the nurses bring a form for you to sign when you leave the emergency department. You are instructed to see your attending physician within 24 hours if you are not feeling better. Many people don't follow up right away with their physicians, because they are often times given a prescription, and they wait and see if they feel better after the medicine has been taken in full.

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I am sorry for your loss. How terrible that your friend was misdiagnosed! Cancer has taken so many friends and family members of mine away. My mother is battling it right now. How upsetting it is to know how one person actually DID seek traditional medical treatment for an ailment, was misdiagnosed, AND the ailment turned out to be a life threatening illness!

Posted on 06/06/2008 at 5:06:39 PM

 
Thanks for this - my brother-in-law was suffering headaches which were called part of "the flu" for months, until the brain tumor was so big it was too late. Tentacles of the cancer had spread thru his brain cells. It is a must to share this type of info.

Posted on 06/05/2008 at 6:06:37 AM

 
I'm truly sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing this, though, as it can help save others.

Posted on 05/20/2008 at 1:05:24 PM

 
I'm so glad you shared this and I was truly amazed to discover how often someone gets cancer at age 67 or older.

Posted on 05/20/2008 at 1:05:43 AM

 
How awful, I'm sorry for your loss and for your friend's suffering. Good article.

Posted on 05/19/2008 at 6:05:39 PM

 
Wow, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss... what a horrible story. Very well written though.

Posted on 05/18/2008 at 9:05:11 PM

 
Great article, Charlene. Yes, we do need to be proactive in our health care. I preach that sermon to my husband all the time!! ( o : So sorry for the loss of your friend and thanks for reminding all of us as to the importance of those annual check-ups.

Posted on 05/18/2008 at 1:05:32 PM

 
Thanks,my Dad went through the same fate.Thank God some places still have Doctors.Be proactive,dont take chances.

Posted on 05/18/2008 at 2:05:24 AM

 
I'm so sorry about your friend. A very very similar thing happened to a good friend of mine 3 years ago. She had originally been diagnoseds wioth Bell's palsy...then she began having bad sinus pain and dizziness. They told her she had bad allergies and put her on meds for that. Things worsened. Finally they diagnosed her with a cancerous tumour. They operated and got that but then found she had cancer elsewhere. Unfortunately she died soon after

Posted on 05/17/2008 at 8:05:21 PM

 
heartbreaking story. Thanks for sharing and sorry for your loss.

Posted on 05/16/2008 at 6:05:06 PM

 
Sorry to learn about your friend, good article :) Sheri

Posted on 05/16/2008 at 2:05:17 AM

 
wow...So sorry about your friend...we really appreciate your great advice...thank you for sharing!

Posted on 05/15/2008 at 3:05:41 PM

 
Write!!!

Posted on 05/15/2008 at 7:05:26 AM

 
Charlene, You right amazing articles and this is another amaing one. I do hope this one article will prompt many to, piock up the phone and make that yearly physical appt. I am having a camp physical this month for scout camping in June. Not as invasive as my yearly physical but still well worth it just in case he may notice something in my blood work. Thank you for sharing!!

Posted on 05/15/2008 at 7:05:51 AM

 
Thanks for sharing this powerful story, Charlene. I've heard of this happening to thousands of people, but have never known anyone personally who was so terribly misdiagnosed. I'm so sorry about your friend.

Posted on 05/15/2008 at 6:05:22 AM

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