Producer Mark Sudack is Heartbroken Over Mariah Carey's Marriage to Nick Cannon

It's no secret in the news. Mariah Carey has wed Nick Cannon, in which she only knew a few short weeks after he worked on the video for a new single. They were wed secretly with minimal people attending. Carey has been through some relationships over the years. She divorced after five years of being married to former Sony CEO Tommy Mattola and quietly dated producer Mark Sudack.

The latter and Carey dated for nearly four years and called it quits early this year. However, Sudack isn't so happy about the newly wed Mariah, especially after four years and working on her latest project E=MC2.

Reports are surfacing that Mark Sudack is quite heartbroken over the quick decision Carey made in marrying. According to a friend, he "never thought she'd go out and marry someone else."

Don't feel bad Mark. Everyone has had a bad relationship these days when marriage isn't forever, and dating becomes almost exhausting. A year ago, I had one of the worst betrayals in my short life.

I was dating a girl I had known for a while. We went to high school together. After a few meetings, we decided to go on a date and from there it just seemed like this would be the one for me. However, what I didn't know was that I was almost blind sighted. We had a nice relationship. We were getting serious and it was feeling as if we could take the relationship to a new level.

However, I had joined a group of friends one night and the news was spilled to me that she was dating someone else. I didn't want to believe it. I couldn't. But what was worse, is the person she was dating was an ex-boyfriend of hers. I confronted her and she admitted to the cheating. I was heartbroken. I immediately called it off and asked her to remove her things from my apartment. Was I being too irrational? Not in the least. I can tolerate some mistakes in a relationship, but cheating is not one of them. That means the commitment isn't there and once that trust is broken, it's broken.

So we both went our separate ways. I couldn't bare to continue a friendship as of yet. I'm an easy-going guy for the most part and I was looking forward to having her in my life.