Are You Being Dumped?

How to Tell If Your Boyfriend is About to Break Up with You

Some people are so blinded by their own feelings that they don't see or ignore the warning signs of an impending breakup. Or, they see the flashing red lights of their intuition signaling that something is not quite right but don't know if it's a rough patch that can be worked out or that the relationship is over. Break ups are never easy but being forewarned is forearmed so you can move on to greener pastures and leave your soon to be ex in the dust. Here are the top eight warning signs that your lover is about to give you the boot.

He makes less and less contact
Your relationship used to be filled with frequent phone calls, texts and emails to chat and you are the first person to know what's going on in his life. Now, he doesn't get in touch the way he used to and takes many days or weeks to resurface or return your phone call. You may even get a hold of him but be told he's too busy to talk. Even worse yet, he forgets to call you back and it becomes a pattern. Trust me, ladies, no guy is ever that busy and if you are still important to him, he won't forget to call you. He'll make the time to talk to you.

He breaks plans and can't guarantee a date in advance
Before, you could count on the weekend and most date nights as time spent together. Now, he blows you off, cancels dates and puts other plans and people before spending time with you. It may be weeks before you see him again. He may lie and make excuses about being swamped with work, projects, family issues. Or, he may not even bother to lie and instead opts to just go MIA. Bottom line, you are no longer on his romantic VIP list.