The Customs and Traditions of Gift Giving in Korea: Info for Backpackers and Tourist

Korea is an amazing location, with deep cultural roots and tradition. The large temples, a reminder of the vast Buddhist influence, as well as the people and food, make the location an ideal place to visit. As with any Asian country, gift-giving is a very traditional custom ingrained in society. The art of giving gifts various between the countries, but the act is a special one, and should be understood before one attempts to offer a gift. The customs are simple to learn and understand, but are necessary to make sure the gift does not offend the person it is being given to.

The following are the common customs for gift-giving in South Korea.

1: Do not offer an expensive gift to someone unless they are financially able to give you a gift of equal value. Gifts are always reciprocated, so be careful over what you choose, and when in doubt, pick something in expensive.

2: If you are invited to a home, a gift similar to what hostesses are given in the US are common. Flowers or a fruit basket are good, safe choices.

3: All gifts should be wrapped neatly, and appear as if care was put into the presentation. The colors red and yellow are royal colors, and are a good option to use. Do not, however, wrap gifts in green, black, or white paper, and do not sign the card in red ink. When you do receive a gift, in the off chance that they wish for you to open it in their presence, do not tear the wrapping paper.

4: In Korea, similar to Japan, the number four (4) is considered unlucky, so no gifts containing four items, or coming in two pairs should be offered. On the other hand, the number 7 is considered lucky.

5: Offer the gift using both hands, and likewise receive any gifts using both hands.

6: The gift will not be opened in your presence, and you likewise should open your own gift in private. This is to 'save face' in case the gift ends up being offensive or embarrassing.

7: Do not present a gift to someone in front of a group. Offer the gift in private.