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I Ain't Be Got No Weapon!

Being Influenced by Stereotypes and Assumptions

By mmog37, published May 22, 2008
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Most people are aware that it is wrong to categorize people on the basis of stereotype, and I am pretty sure that we all know what happens when we assume. Yet in spite of how many people know this, I am still surprised each and every time I encounter someone who is clearly being driven by stereotypes and assumption. Personally I think that these things are present in everyone, some are just more extreme than others.

Some of those stereotypes and assumptions seem innocent and don't appear to cause any harm, like the kids I see at the mall or when I am on the college campus. I often fore go the typical business attire for a pair of loose fitting jeans and a pair of ice white K-Swiss sneakers, so naturally when these kids see me they assume that I am one of those cool brothers, and it is not uncommon for these kids to greet me with head nods and "Whazz Up!" I love shaking them up by responding to them in my most nerdiest voice, "Greetings, a lovely day we are having today, I am finding it to be most fortuitous how about you sir?" Most of the time they are still standing there trying to figure out what just happened as I walk away and go on about my business.

I Ain't Be Got No Weapon!

Unchecked stereotypes and assumptions block our vision and keep us from seeing things the way the really are.

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Takeaways
  • Assumption is the lowest form of thought.
  • I have fun with people who try to make me fit their stereotypes and assumptions.
  • Stereotyping people says more about you than it does the people you are stereotyping.
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thanks all :)

Posted on 06/19/2008 at 1:06:54 PM

 
I almost fell out of my chair laughing at some of your antics. Great article!

Posted on 06/18/2008 at 2:06:21 PM

 
Exceptional article as always.

Posted on 06/13/2008 at 11:06:04 AM

 
Great title too!

Posted on 06/08/2008 at 6:06:39 PM

 
I readily admit that I thought the cop was white until you clarified this. I also admit that I did not know what DWB meant. Your article taught me a couple of things about myself and language...a win win. Again, really well done.

Posted on 06/08/2008 at 5:06:47 PM

 
You approached this topic in such a skillful manner, making us laugh and reflect at the same time. I'm impressed! And I agree with you - we all exercise poor judgment at some point or another and stereotype others when we shouldn't. Your example with the cop illustrated this very point. In the end, you challenged us to think about the ways in which we too tend to stereotype people. Great job!

Posted on 05/29/2008 at 5:05:46 PM

 
Excellent piece! I think we all have stereotypes even though we wish we didn't. I sure know how I felt about people my age when I was much younger and now...I wince.

Posted on 05/27/2008 at 1:05:16 AM

 
Great article, man. Reminds me of Living Colour's brilliant song and video "Funny Vibe". The most dangerous lies are the kind with a tiny little bit of truth mixed in, and stereotypes are such dangerous lies.

Posted on 05/26/2008 at 4:05:11 PM

 
What a powerful article -- nice combination of subtlety and humor to handle a heated and diverse topic. I Dugg it but know it won't reach the wide audience it deserves too...5 stars!

Posted on 05/25/2008 at 5:05:14 PM

 
This is a great article! What can be really strange about stereotypes is when people make assumptions about your race. From the time I was a kid people have thought me to be black, mexican, or white. How people react to me sometimes depends on their view of my race, and is really interesting when I'm not sure how they are labeling me in their minds, lol.

Posted on 05/24/2008 at 3:05:10 PM

 
Shamontiel I figured you knew what DWB stood for...and I never did clear up what ethnic group the cop was, just that he wasn't white. To be honest I wasn't sure what his ethnicity was, he was a little bit darker than me and had an accent....but I couldn't even begin to guess, as for the title that came from one of my favorite movies dealing with stereotypes in the media "Hollywood Shuffle"...it is hilarious I get stomach cramps every time I watch it...it features Robert Townsend and Keenan Ivory Wayans (before In Living Color)

Posted on 05/23/2008 at 8:05:05 PM

 
Mmog37, did you tell Mike that the cop was Black because I don't see that cleared up within this piece? Mike, how'd you know the cop was Black. After he said he wasn't White, I started picturing Asian cops and Mexican cops and African cops and Puerto Rican..okay, you get the idea.

Posted on 05/23/2008 at 5:05:39 PM

 
Mmog37, I didn't ask you what DWB was because it's a common abbreviation: Driving While Black. Unless you meant it to stand for something else. As for the title, I just assumed you meant that people expect Black folks to not know how to speak correctly. A prime example would be the unfortunate experience Lovella had. Lovella, you are very patient because that lady would've gotten a lecture from me for saying something so idiotic.

Posted on 05/23/2008 at 5:05:30 PM

 
Jamie Foxx used to do a gag like that on the old In Liviong Color in which he was a "Street Shakespeare" with a British accept, funnier than hell. ....... Since you have declared as pro-Pistons, we won up in Boston tonight 103-97. Your avatar looks like a Celtics player constantly hacking the Pistons on every trip down the floor. Keep up the great work, mmog, you are a fave. -- Mike

Posted on 05/22/2008 at 11:05:44 PM

 
You got me on the stereotype. Was all gunned up to suggest that all communities should have a Human Relations Commission that accepts citizen complaints against cops, no individual complaint can be proven but a cop who racks up a bunch of complaints overall can then face management inquiries and possible discipline. This is still a good idea, but the fact that your cop buddy was Black sort of takes the spark out of it ..... In Saginaw the most notorious cop of the turbulent '60s was a Black cop and a Black person shot him dead ..... also in Saginaw you could have been cited under a noise ordinance that is selectively enforced ..... In the distant past I drove a car for a year with a cracked windshield, then let my teenage stepson (Black) take it and he was pulled over the first day ...... Your stuff in the parking lot is funnier than hell but please be careful ...... As for your hip garb followed with "lovely day," Jamie Foxx on the old In Living Color used to do a gag like that where

Posted on 05/22/2008 at 11:05:36 PM

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