The Misconduct of Parents at Youth Sporting Events

A Message to Mom and Dad: Chill Out! It's Just a Game

By Jerrard Ellerbe, published Nov 02, 2006
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Youth sports are supposed to be a fun-filled learning experience that not only teaches children the basic fundamentals of the sport, but lessons on teamwork and good sportsmanship. I’ve spoken to many coaches who volunteer their time in the afternoons and weekends, working with young kids to develop the necessary skills they will need as they become older. They always speak of how fun it is to coach kids throughout an entire season. The biggest problem they must deal with week after week, are some of the parents who take a little league game way too seriously.

When I was a kid, playing little league sports, there was always one kid on my team who would quit, just avoiding being embarrassed by their fantasy-minded mom or dad. It’s truly amazing to see adults fighting each other in the stands because of what’s going on in a game or yelling at the coach because their child isn’t getting the playing time he or she deserves. CNN reported that a poll of close to 3000 participants, conducted by the Center for Sports Parenting, 85 percent of the polls participants witnessed parents or coaches becoming verbally abusive during games and forty percent of the poll participants witnessed a parent become physically abusive. Where is the anger and rage coming from? People actually get way out of control over what’s supposed to be fun.

The Misconduct of Parents at Youth Sporting Events

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My child loves to play all sports football beinging his favorite. I see parents that think their child is the only player on the team. Football is a team sport. I cannot stand to see a parent think other children are less than their's and to say if it were not for mine we would not be champs. Not true, parents give the youth football a bad name, let the kids learn and play the game.

Posted on 07/08/2008 at 8:07:25 AM

 
You are so right! I coach a youth program and the parents are the worst part of coaching. If more parents would realize that the youth football players, the ones under 13. The game of football is not life and death. The kids are there to have fun. If they are lucky they will be exposed to all the great teaching tools football has to offer, such as goalsetting, team building, learning to sacrifice and time management. All these skills can be used for a lifetime. For low priced youth football coaching products check out this website www.footballtools.com

Posted on 11/10/2006 at 7:11:00 PM

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