Whether you are a first time mother or a seasoned veteran of motherhood, the changes you will encounter going from being a working
mom to a stay at
home mom will be substantial and at times overwhelming. Prior to giving
birth to my first
child I decided that I would take some time off from my professional
career to stay at
home with my
baby for the first year. It is now 14 months later and I am fortunate enough to still be at
home with my son. I can’t express how wonderful it is to be able to spend each full day with him and see all of the fascinating changes that occur in the process. However, it was quite an adjustment going from a full time
career on the outside to a full time
career on the inside. Here are some tips for keeping the sanity… 1. SOCIALIZE - I know that during the first couple of months, hanging out with other moms was the last thing on my mind. I was up to my eyeballs in diapers, breastfeeding, etc. and felt a bit overwhelmed. However, once that initial stage passed, I was feeling that my vocabulary was being minimized to goo goos and ga
gas and knew that something had to give. It is really important to try to get out there and meet other moms. Even if you don’t socialize with other moms and want to go out alone at night with some girlfriends…do it. It is so important to keep some semblance of yourself. 2. GET DRESSED - I’m not saying that you should get all dolled up in a formal gown every day but fix yourself up a little and put on some lipstick, even if your
child is the only one that sees you all day. There is just something about looking frumpy that makes you feel that way. This way, even if you are not leaving the
house everyday for a 9-5 job, you still feel like you can leave the
house without frightening the neighbors. 3. STAY INFORMED - Whether you enjoy reading the morning paper or watching the news on television, it is important to stay up to
date on current events. In the past, when you were working outside of the home, current
events were always right there in your face. They were the topic of discussion at the water cooler, so to speak. Try to stay informed. 4. GET OUT OF THE HOUSE - Pack up your little one and get the heck out of the house. Whether you are going
shopping or taking a trip to your local coffeehouse, try to make daily trips out of the home. This is beneficial not only for your own sanity to be around other living, breathing adult human beings but for the sake of your
child as well. Babies and small
children love to people watch. They will enjoy the outing and so will you. These tips may not seem to be anything out of the ordinary but it is often the simplest things that can be forgotten. Try to remember to do these four little things while being a “stay at home”
mom and enjoy all of the wonderful memories you and your
children are making together.
