Keep the Romance Alive in Long Distance Relationships

Long distance relationships are no longer unusual in today's society. In fact, they're almost the norm! Internet dating, career relocation and higher education needs have created a worldwide singles scene for today's savvy single. These days, it's possible your girlfriend or boyfriend lives across the country - or even across the world!

Unfortunately, maintaining a long distance relationship isn't always easy. The lack of private time together - coupled with different environments and experiences - can stress even the most loving of relationships. Fortunately, there are some easy ways to keep the spark alive when your lover is miles away.

Use technology! E-mail, text messages and instant messaging are simple ways to "touch base" regularly without the time (and long distance bill!) of a phone call. A quick note to tell your lover that you're thinking of him/her can be enough to keep the fires burning.

Go old-fashioned! Sure, technology is easy and convenient. But there's nothing like an old-fashioned letter to really touch the heart of the one you love. Since you have plenty of time to think about the words you want to say, your letter should be both heartfelt and meaningful. Use elegant stationary to make it even more special.

Send a gift! Skip the ubiquitous bouquet of flowers and, instead, send something personal and unique. If she's a bookworm, send a first edition copy of her favorite book. If he's a music lover, create a CD mix of his favorite songs. You'll send the message that you're thoughtful and creative.

Make a date! Do you both enjoy the same TV show? Are you both horror movie fans? Make a telephone date to watch a show or film together. Even though you aren't in the same room, you still get the closeness that comes from a shared experience.

Meet halfway! Nothing beats personal time together. If a long distance separates you, consider meeting halfway. Even one weekend together can recharge your relationship. Bonus: You can choose a romantic B&B or country inn so you get plenty of privacy.