Sex After Menopause

Does Female Sexuality End After Menopause?

Menopause is a time of change in the way a woman's body functions, which is why menopause is often called 'the change of life'. Some women look at menopause as a very freeing thing, while others look at menopause as the end of their youth or even let menopause affect how they see
 themselves as a woman. How a woman views menopause can affect how she feels about herself and her body while going through menopause, and those feelings, along with physical changes in the body, can have a profound impact on an otherwise normal sex life.

Even though there are many body changes that can result from menopause, the one thing that doesn't have to change is having an active, satisfying sex life after menopause. In fact, for a wife and a mother, menopause might just be the best sex time in her life! Think about it: no worries about pregnancy or birth control; the kids are grown or almost grown; and since men go through their own hormonal changes at about the same age, he might just have to physically spend more time on foreplay!

Human sexuality doesn't end at a certain age. Nowadays, men and women are both enjoying active and healthy sex lives well into the 'golden years'. Of course, there are certain changes that happen to the body that might need to be addressed when going through menopause to ensure maximum sexual satisfaction during and post menopause.

Let's look at a few things a woman and her partner can do to minimize any potential menopause sexual pitfalls.

Hormones Change Sex After Menopause

Some woman will find hormonal changes happen after menopause that can reduce or increase sex drive. Other woman may find no noticeable change from hormones. If mood and libido are negatively impacted during or after menopause, doctors can prescribe hormone therapy, from prescribing birth control pills to prescribing hormone replacement therapy (HRT). If you are a woman older than 35 or so and you are experiencing negative changes in your sex drive or mood, discuss these with your doctor - it may be nothing but pre-menopausal symptoms and not a sign of anything wrong.

Vaginal Dryness Changes Sex After Menopause

Related information
  • Menopause doesn't have to change your sex life.
  • Sex after menopause can actually be more fulfilling than before.
  • Some women have reported increased sex drive and pleasure after menopause.
 
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Very good article, Michy. I'm there, and it's all true!

Posted on 01/13/2009 at 2:01:09 AM

Light the candles baby....it is the "best" time of my life, anyway! You are correct when you say,we no longer have to worry about pregnancy, which took a whole lot of fun out of everything in the earlier years! Super article!

Posted on 11/19/2008 at 8:11:24 AM

Every woman is different as to when this will come about. You made some great points here.

Posted on 10/02/2008 at 11:10:53 AM

Excellent article with lots of good information. Menopause is a tremendous change - mostly for the better ! :)

Posted on 09/09/2008 at 12:09:47 AM

BTW, keep reading my articles... you'll find plenty of REAL weasel words in them. Never said I didn't use them. This just wasn't one. Come on, keep reading.

Posted on 08/29/2008 at 12:08:47 PM

Okay, you obvious don't have a clue what weasel words are. Saying, "...might just be the best sex time in her life!" is not actually a weasel word term. It's a statement that it might be - but it might not be for all. Now, if I had said, "Most women will find it is the best sex time of her life!" then that would be a weasel term... but 'might be' means just that, it might be or it might not be. As I said to you on the other site, just because I wrote an article about weasel words (something you can easily research yourself, because it's not a concept I came up with on my own here), doesn't mean I've never used one, nor that one shouldn't use one. It simply means that it is weaker writing and to be stronger, you should find other ways to write it. It doesn't make me a hypocrite to use them... just makes my writing weaker. That's my choice.

Posted on 08/29/2008 at 12:08:40 PM

might just be (weasel words) might just be? Hypocritical much? the best sex time in her life!

Posted on 08/29/2008 at 11:08:01 AM

Great information.. as I pass into this journey in my life, it's good to know what to expect so I can be prepared for it.

Posted on 08/22/2008 at 11:08:43 AM

Interesting. I know ever since I was a teen I wished I was through menopause! lol

Posted on 08/15/2008 at 7:08:52 PM

My symptoms weren't typical at all...burning arms, anxiety attacks, and when those were over, even more crazy cravings for chocolate than before! I started young and am told more symptoms are coming. YUCK! Don't want to do HRT, But I drink soymilk.

Posted on 08/08/2008 at 11:08:31 AM

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