Homebirth Can Make You a Better Parent

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This article is part of my homebirth series. If you are interested in homebirth, I encourage you to look for my other articles. My homebirth series is still in progress, so check back for new articles about homebirth and parenting. I also encourage you to ask questions and offer ideas
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Homebirth can make you a better parent because of the myriad options that homebirth starts us on the path of considering.

When women opt to have a homebirth, they are already choosing to think outside the box, for their benefit and the benefit of their baby. They are putting their priorities on themselves and their family.

This thought process alone can strengthen your ability to formulate ideas about how you want to parent and what your options are.

Homebirth midwives tend to advocate a certain type of parenting. They model this with their woman-centered care. They take care of you, thereby taking care of your unborn child and your family.

Many homebirth midwives will only accept patients who intend to breastfeed. They explain why...breastfeeding, particularly in the weeks after the birth, is highly important because it gets your uterus back to good shape, causes contractions that prevent hemorrhage, and helps with post-partum depression. Because medications aren't readily available that would stop a postpartum hemorrhage, breastfeeding does well to prevent this rare complication. Have no fear, midwives know how to stop or prevent this from occuring, and most of them work with a local hospital that they can transport you to if they can't deal with this complication, though hospital transfers after a birth are very rare. Midwives have many tricks up their sleeves to help keep you healthy and preserve your birthing experience.

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Really? Because what I've read about Mrs. Lethbridge suggests that she never mistreated her kids. Why don't we look at the facts? None of her kids died in her care or contracted any STDs. Two have died in custody of CPS, and one contracted Hepatitis. Based on that I think her kids were better off with her.

Posted on 07/15/2007 at 11:07:00 AM

The baby wouldn't have been abused no matter how long he stayed in that home, and being that he was well cared for in the two weeks during which his mother actually had the chance to care for him, I don't see any reason for his removal especially considering the Lethbridges were never found guilty of child abuse.

Posted on 07/14/2007 at 11:07:00 PM

So.... I'm a bad parent because I had hospital birth and I horror of horrors had a c/s. Yeah no. Since I have custody of my child and she does not. Wow the generalizations on homebirthing midwives is appalling. I had great support from an ob. Not all home birth midwives are the saints you are protraying. Home birth is just another form of BIRTH. Nothing special... except taking on unnessary risk. It does not make you super parent or anything like that.

Posted on 07/12/2007 at 11:07:00 PM

Wow, another crazy Cindy Balweath batch of postings, both under the fake Cindy name as well as a myriad of other names. Do yourself a favor, Cindy. Don't mess about with other people on here like Heather B. Find yourself something else to do. There are people such as myself who advocate attachment parenting and who are also quite wealthy and could get one of Bill Gates's lawyers on the phone in a Microsoft minute to deal with people of your ilk. So I suggest that you go away for good and get back to your social work, or whatever menial job it is that you have. Stalking is a crime.

Posted on 07/05/2007 at 6:07:00 AM

They didn't abuse or neglect their baby; he was only with them 15 days, so they didn't even have time. And according to DHS, he was well taken care of during those two weeks.

Posted on 05/01/2007 at 8:05:00 AM

"A DHS report written Friday notes that the couple's apartment was clean and that they have enough income to provide for a baby." Look, they admit that their house is clean and that they aren't poor, but they took Xavier anyway based on decisions of the PAST. The present doesn't matter to them at all, and yet it is the PRESENT that is more important.

Posted on 05/01/2007 at 8:05:00 AM

And of course you're revelling over their misery. I wonder if the state will put this baby with a good foster family--or with a family of child abusers and molestors, as they've done with other children belonging to the Lethbridges. They take her children away based on events that happened 10 years ago; they have no legitimate reason to keep doing this to her. They are operating off of bias, not facts, because the facts are that many recommendations have been made that the Lethbridges get their children back. Of course, you'd know that if you did your research. I have to wonder why anyone would be SO obsessed with this matter. Shouldn't you be off taking care of your own children? Run along now before I call CPS on you for you neglecting them.

Posted on 05/01/2007 at 8:05:00 AM

Loving arms of their parents? The Lethbridges? Get real. Aaaaand very glad to see Baby #10 has been taken away from these monsters. The state is doing something right.

Posted on 05/01/2007 at 8:05:00 AM

You're the only sick woman, supporting the actions of an organization that took children from the loving arms of their parents and placed them into foster homes where they died or contracted Hepatitis B from molestation and using those facts to torment a woman who wants nothing more than a chance to be a mother to her babies. Grow up, and get a life.

Posted on 04/24/2007 at 12:04:00 PM

If the elderly woman is a child abusing monster like Jennifer Lethbridge, I'd be happy to give her a nudge. SIck, sick people.

Posted on 04/24/2007 at 9:04:00 AM

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