Cindy Margolis' Ex-Husband Guy Starkman Helps Her Look for Love?

The rumor mill is buzzing with the latest juicy gossip - Cindy Margolis' ex-husband Guy Starkman is helping her look for love. It's a story that comes as a surprise considering her popularity on the Internet and the fact that they just divorced this year. Isn't it normal for people who recently break-up to have a few hurt feelings and give each other space? Hhm? It makes you wonder. Or, I should say it makes me wonder about a man I dated years ago.

For privacy reasons, I won't give his real name. Let's just call him Mr. T. Mr. T and I also remained friends after our break-up and tried to help each other in the area of love like Guy Starkman and Cindy Margolis. However, it never really worked out. The connection between us never really ended and playing "pretend" friends only made it worse. So it makes me wonder if Guy Starkman is really in the best position to help Cindy Margolis.

Of course, in the beginning, Mr. T and I started off all right. We were going to be adult about it and end our relationship as close friends. Blah, blah, blah, blah. Yet, after seeing him sitting next to a girlfriend that I just knew would be perfect for him, I got upset. I didn't want to be with Mr. T anymore, but I sure as hell didn't want to watch him date one of my friends. It ended up causing friction and ultimately the end of our friendship. This is what I think will happen with Cindy Margolis and Guy Starkman.

For a while, Guy Starkman will be okay with his Cindy dating other men as long as it isn't in his face. Yet, the day that Cindy Margolis starts bringing another man around on a regular basis, he'll snap. Guy Starkman will realize that their relationship is truly over and then his true feelings will come out. It's an event that is almost inevitable.

So what do I think people should do when they break up? How should they relate to each other? I think they should do the following:

* Stay out of each other's love lives.

* Have a peaceful, friendly relationship.

* Give each other time to adjust to the break-up.

* Be true to themselves and how they really feel in the moment.

* Move on and try to find another person to love.