Flirtation 101: How to Flirt the Best You Can!

How do you flirt? Are you bad at flirting? What are the rules of flirting? Maybe you need to read "Flirting 101"...or, as I like to call it, "FLIRT CLUB". (First rule of flirt club, don't talk about...never mind. You can read about flirt club, however.)

Here are some ground rules for flirting, before we get into the finer points of flirting.  

1. DON'T FLIRT WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T WANT TO BE FLIRTED WITH.

If the person you're trying to flirt with is not responding, maybe you need to step back a little bit. No one likes to be bothered. If you're getting negative signs, you may want to stop flirting and do something else.

TIP: Flirt unto others as you want to be flirted yourself.

2. DON'T TAKE FLIRTING SERIOUSLY

Some people take a flirt too far. Flirting can make you feel like you're getting close to a person, or you're asking for a serious relationship. Make sure you draw a line and don't go over it. You don't want to give someone the wrong intention of your feelings.

TIP: Don't give someone the wrong idea. Make sure they know you're flirting, and flirting only.

If you understand the above two ideas, you are ready to move on to flirting.

FLIRT STRATEGY #1 - The Name-caller

WHAT YOU DO: call your flirt names. Make sure that they're childish. You don't want to insult, you simply want to have fun. Try throwing out names like: meanie, butterfingers, charlie brown, buddy, pal, poppa, and things of that nature.

One of my favorite flirts is to call a girl a "Dude" or "Sir". It's funny because it's not true.

You can also call your flirt by NICKNAMES. If your flirt's name is "John", you can call him "Sean John". The possibilities of nicknames are endless.

To make the flirting heat up, start making a list of names that you would call your flirt. You can get as in depth as you want. Try calling your flirt things like: "cutie", "baby", "hot stuff", "hottie", or even "love slave".

This way, you can flirt as much as you want without going too far!

FLIRT STRATEGY #2 - If I was an animal...I'd be...

WHAT YOU DO: start talking about animals. Lions, tigers, bears, antelope, whatever you want.