Let's Talk About Sex... During Pregnancy

Let’s talk about sex….. Obviously, we all know that’s what got you here reading an article about pregnancy. But let’s talk about how pregnancy affects sex. 

Contrary to popular jokes, your intimate life is not over now that you are pregnant. There may be, however, some ebb and flow, and you’ll find the need for good communication is stronger now than ever before. There are emotional and physical changes to be expected at each stage of pregnancy; first, second and third trimester. I'll also answer questions about what can and cannot be done.

Sexual Changes in the First Trimester of Pregnancy

Emotionally: 
• Not worrying about birth control or the possibility of pregnancy may increase desire for both partners. 
• Learning to accept a new “motherly” role may decrease desire for a woman until she adapts to this new self-image. 
• Women may feel free to explore new fantasies and sexual preoccupations. The feeling of creating new life may energize and excite! The man might feel sexual self-esteem rising at the thought of the pregnancy enhancing his desire. 

Physically:
• Fatigue and nausea may make sex the last thing on her mind on a given day. 
• Breasts are generally more tender, either increasing pleasure, or bringing pain if very sore. Be sure to communicate on this subject! 
• Orgasms may last longer than usual, or you may experience an orgasm for the first time if you never have before.