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How to Be a Good Neighbor: Town Home and Condo Etiquette

By Carol Wilkins, published Jul 15, 2008
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Turn onto the backstreets of my town home neighborhood, and the beauty of the Old World style homes will pleasantly surprise you. The community is small, and the landscaping is fresh and well-maintained. The neighborhood looks like a dream.

Move in and you will have a rude awakening from that dream. Town homes and condominiums are supposed to be that nice middle ground for homeowners who do not want to rent but also not have the hassle of landscape and other outside maintenance. Unfortunately, not all homeowners or renters in our community have the same goal of a pleasant neighborhood. As I am sure this is a universal issue, here are a few tips for learning to be a good neighbor in a town home or condominium community.

Be Cognizant of the Rules
Whether you own or rent in a community, always be sure you know and understand the community rules. The policies are in place for a reason: so that many different people of many different backgrounds can come together in a peaceful, pleasant neighborhood. If you own a unit in a community but rent it out, be sure your renters understand the rules. You will be the one responsible should your renters not follow the policies.

Be Careful about Parking Issues
Most communities, like mine, have a policy regarding parking. You should park only in your own driveway (you would be surprised how many people feel they can park in another's drive). Many people use their garage as a storage shed and park wherever they want. Or families have too many vehicles for their home. Be courteous to your neighbors and work on getting your vehicles into the proper places. Depending on your neighborhood's rules, stick with your own driveway and garage. Do not use or overuse extra parking places designed for guests.

How to Be a Good Neighbor: Town Home and Condo Etiquette

Peaceful neighborhood.

Credit: C. Wilkins

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Takeaways
  • Because homes are so close, be even more courteous to your neighbors.
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Great suggestions :) Sheri

Posted on 08/21/2008 at 6:08:59 PM

 
:)

Posted on 07/17/2008 at 3:07:11 PM

 
Excellent advice!

Posted on 07/17/2008 at 2:07:56 PM

 
This is a wonderful piece---Megan is right, the whole scope of what you wrote has crossover appeal for readers who live in apartments. I have never heard of someone's car actually blocking postal access to the point that it prevented someone from getting their mail delivered! How terrible! In the end though, open lines of communication are the best thing for any kind of relationship, and that would include those between neighbors!

Posted on 07/17/2008 at 8:07:29 AM

 
Excellent suggestions.

Posted on 07/17/2008 at 8:07:45 AM

 
My husband and I live in a townhouse also, these are very true issues. Thanks for sharing :)

Posted on 07/16/2008 at 7:07:03 PM

 
When first married, we lived in an apartment complex (briefly, then rented an entire home and then bought one). It was amazing what people would do and how they'd block parking spaces or even space in front of common entrances. Common courtesy did not seem common. I'm glad you wrote this one!

Posted on 07/16/2008 at 12:07:37 PM

 
I lived in a duplex neighborhood for three years and dealt with quite a few of these issues! That's why I bought 2 acres in the country! :)

Posted on 07/15/2008 at 4:07:05 PM

 
excellent tips!

Posted on 07/15/2008 at 1:07:06 PM

 
Excellent suggestions here !!...

Posted on 07/15/2008 at 12:07:48 PM

 
Good tips on Etiquette. Now what can I do about people lighting off fireworks at night; every night!

Posted on 07/15/2008 at 12:07:49 PM

 
:)

Posted on 07/15/2008 at 11:07:57 AM

 
Good to know. I was thinking of investing in a condo in the next few years.

Posted on 07/15/2008 at 9:07:10 AM

 
A lot of this stuff applies to apartments too. I've lived in 2 apartments, the first of which someone upstairs threw someone else's belongings down the stairs and all over the small patch of grass in front of the apartment. I'd go outside and there would be like an ironing board in front of my door, ha. In the other apartment, my downstairs neighbor was a doll but she sat right beneath my bedroom window and talked on the phone SO LOUD at almost all hours! It was awful! Ahh, everyone should read your piece.

Posted on 07/15/2008 at 9:07:28 AM

 
One of my brothers lives in a community similiar to yours, and he has to deal with a slew of these issues.

Posted on 07/15/2008 at 9:07:48 AM

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