Bad Kid or ADHD?

By Shamontiel, published Jul 01, 2008
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The child can't be still, his grades are decreasing, and he won't listen in class. While some family members, friends, and teachers might consider him a menace, modern science may diagnose him with having ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder).

According to Psych Central, 3 percent to 5 percent of U.S. children (approximately 2.5 million) have ADHD. The number of African American children with ADHD is guesstimated to be the same amount in white children, but with the lack of healthcare, skepticism of Ritalin and other medicine, lack of diagnosis and scientific research for Black children with ADHD, and the belief that a "good whooping" will solve everything, some African American children with ADHD are suffering while others have improved conduct after being treated.

Gwendolyn Young, 49 and grandmother of two boys with ADHD, said, "My grandsons are a lot calmer when they're on medication, especially one who is not as mean-spirited and less antsy. You can talk to him, and he doesn't get flustered as easily. But both of them are really quiet and kinda despondent when they first take the medicine. But if I had to choose between them being quiet or being evil, I'll choose quiet. Trying to deal with a child with ADHD is...when they're in rare form, it's a challenge."

The challenge of ADHD, formerly known as Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) until 1994, involves hyperactivity-impulsivity type, inattention type and combined type. Hyperactivity type involves fidgeting and squirming, leaving one's seat, running or climbing. Inattention type is having a short attention span, unable to listen well or comprehend small details, being forgetful, or poor organizational skills and study skills for the child's age group. Impulsivity type is interrupting others when they're talking, blurts out answers before they're called or acts sporadically.

Bad Kid or ADHD?

Carl C. Bell, M.D., President and CEO of Community Mental Health Council, Inc. and Professor of Psychiatry and Public Health, University of Illinois in Chicago

Credit: Dr. Carl Bell

Copyright: Dr. Carl Bell

Takeaways
  • 3 percent to 5 percent of U.S. children (approximately 2.5 million) have ADHD.
  • Other factors like environment and role models can factor into the reason why a child misbehaves.
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I am 52 years old and have ADHD. My son and one of my daughters has ADHD. I have several close friends who have children that have it. My kids are grown but when my son was young, they tried to talk me into Ritalin. At the time I didn't know I had it. However, I couldn't see putting him on a drug. I learned all I could about it and went to work on him, my daughter and myself. Dealing with ADHD is a lifetime process. You are never rid of it. If you can learn a method for recognizing it and learning ways to deal with it, it is manageable without the drugs. Kids have to eat better and get to know themselves. I have another friend who did the same thing with her two sons who had it. No drugs, no whippings, learned management. I wish more parents would take more interests in their kids and learn how to deal with them without beatings or drugs. I am also an advocate of beatin their butts when needed, however, ADHD is a horrible burden for anyone. As a writer, I struggle all the time. The ben

Posted on 08/20/2008 at 7:08:19 AM

 
Josie, thank you for your comments. I appreciate that. I'm just dead tired of parents, especially in the African American community, having this phobia about therapy and medicine. If I meet one more parent that claims a whooping will cure it all, I'm going to scream. I'm not opposed to whoopings, but at least hear the child out and make sure it's not out of their control. As for Ritalin, I feel you there. I've seen that zombie effect. It almost makes a person want to say, "Screw the medicine! Let them act up."

Posted on 08/07/2008 at 12:08:07 PM

 
Shamontiel: I found your article to be very informative. I have a 9 year old son who has ADHD and his problems began when he was VERY young. He's been taking medication since he was 5, even though they (the doctors) didn't want to put him on anything because he was so young, they did and it was very helpful. Not only did they diagnose him w/ADHD, but also with ODD, which is Oppositional Defiant Disorder, which basically means he knows full well what's right and wrong, he just chooses to do the wrong thing in a lot of instances. I was kinda glad they didn't put him on Ritalin because of the side effects. The medicine he takes is an extended release capsule and it works pretty well up until mid afternoon and once it starts to wear off, the hyperactivity and bad behavior starts up. But anyways. It was a good article...

Posted on 08/07/2008 at 12:08:56 PM

 
Whenever I hear about this I wonder -- have they researched dietary habits also? Food is a very powerful thing also; if I eat the wrong sorts of foods/drinks my anxiety (I have an anxiety disorder) gets pretty bad, but if I stick to a very natural, mostly vegetarian diet it's not so bad. Wonder if it's the same for ADHD?

Posted on 07/31/2008 at 4:07:23 AM

 
Tiffani, thank you very much for the compliment. I really appreciate it. I just want to commend you for going above and beyond what the teachers say. See, this is that fine line between a teacher's responsibility and the parent's responsibility. If the school has that attitude that the child is just restless, that may affect the child's attitude. You, on the other hand, chose to find out an alternate way of handling the issue with your child not paying attention. I wish there was that happy medium with most parents. From my observation, I either meet parents who think the teacher's (or school's) word is gold and wouldn't even attempt to ask the child why he/she misbehaved or the parents who are so set on defending their child that they won't listen to anyone who DOES believe in ADHD or ADD. That's cool that you stepped back to see "What doesn't fit here? Why is my child acting this way?" I have a question for you: why did you decide to homeschool him?

Posted on 07/10/2008 at 7:07:37 AM

 
Sorry this comment is still going on...:) Parents must realize that kids with ADD do not receive info the way non-ADD kids do. There are also meds that can be fast-acting only used when concentration is most important. More important than meds though, I believe, is effective behavior modification. My son, and other ADD children I have known, respond very well to reward/consequences. *If parents of ADD/ADHD kids want their children to pay attention more, the parents are going to have to start give a great amount of careful attention to their children's needs and noting that they think differently from siblings and other kids who do not have ADD/ADHD.

Posted on 07/10/2008 at 7:07:23 AM

 
Shamontiel, Excellent, excellent piece! You deserved 5 stars, not just 4 and half. I have a son with ADD (the non-hyperactive type). I noticed no issues whatsoever until I put him an a private Catholic kindergarten with 20 plus students in the class. The teacher told me he was exceptionally well-behaved (never acted out), but he could not pay attention no matter how hard he tried. The school and the district refused to test him, so I had him privately tested by several pediatricians, two educators, and a psychiatrist. They all agreed he had a mild form of ADD, but that it would appear much more exaggerated in a large classroom. I have been teaching him at home for more 3 years now through an online public charter school. He also takes meds, but only when they are needed. He is excelling, and his discipline issues are different than my other children's, because he responds to commands much differently. ADD is simply a different way of thinking. That must be realized by parents.

Posted on 07/10/2008 at 7:07:07 AM

 
Mmog37, I totally respect controversy. I get enough of them on my articles. I need to sharpen up my debating skills, getting dusty. LOL. I have heard of parents and children who are drugged up so their parents don't have to raise them, but I don't know any of these people, so I'm inexperienced in that area. However, I can't count the number of times I've heard and seen parents wack their kids without listening to why the child did what he did or just felt like a whipping was like curing cancer. It bothers me, especially when people forget a child has a heart. I remember being at the Metra train station a few years back, and this lady was sneering at her son, calling him a "motherfucker," and saying he "wasn't going to be shit." This kid was like 9 years old. I was in high school at the time, but that stuck with me. People wonder why young people grow up screwed up and angry, assume their bad, but they ask the kid "Why?" I just wish some people would remember children are human too.

Posted on 07/09/2008 at 11:07:26 PM

 
It's true there are some kids who need the meds...I wasn't knocking the meds, just the people who use them as a substitution for taking the time and effort it takes to get to the root of the kids problems....besides I wanted to spark some controversy up in here LOL

Posted on 07/09/2008 at 11:07:15 PM

 
Mmog37, I disagree. There are psychiatrists who spend quite a bit of time trying to figure out what would make the child misbehave before putting them on medication. Are there any liable studies where you got this information that kids are being doped up and don't need to be? In my research, I didn't find one valid source for that accusation, and I've heard it so much. That's the type of attitude that keeps parents from actually seeking help for their kids. It's also where folks get the idea that a whipping will solve everything, and that drives me nuts. I'm surprised you'd agree with this though considering you write about Latarian Milton, and that kid definitely needs some medical attention. You don't think so?

Posted on 07/08/2008 at 7:07:53 AM

 
I with Justice Lives Not on this one...there are a lot of kids being put on the meds who don't need to be...I think part o the problem is that we tend to forget that most problems have multiple causes and that to effectively deal with them you must address all of the causes and not just medicate the symptoms...it takes time energy and effort to work with these kids...and I think a lot of people wont admit it but it's easier to dope the kids up than to actually invest that time and energy it takes to help them get better.

Posted on 07/08/2008 at 7:07:47 AM

 
...child who simply cannot help himself or herself. I agree with Dr. Taylor-Crawford when she talked about trying to find out why a child is still acting out even after the parents have exhausted all other possibilities. It seems like there are some parents who are ashamed to admit that their child may have a mental disorder. It may not sound pretty, but hitting them will just never do. That was my main drive for writing this article. I'm tired of reading other articles that say that whippings in the African American community will make a child act right. No, it makes that child hate you, violent, and behaving from fear, not respect. I'm not completely against physical punishment, but there's such a vast difference between giving a child one good pop or make a smack across the bottom than whipping them with extension chords, paddles, and so forth. George, good to see some new faces on my articles. Thanks for dropping by!

Posted on 07/03/2008 at 11:07:22 PM

 
Thank you to everyone who has commented on the article. Momie, I know a couple of kids with ADHD as well, and I've watched their improvement academically. However, when taking the medicine, they seem sluggish and moody. I definitely like that their grades are better, but the antisocial part is a little disappointing. Herstory, thank you for the kind word, and you are right, there is no right and wrong. Every kid is different. Justice, always good to hear from you. I found in researching that there are more children who are NOT being treated because of that old-fashioned rule about giving a child a beating or whipping (note: I spelled it whooping; sorry about that) for acting out instead of trying to find out WHY they're acting out. Abesi!, I definitely agree. When I see a kid acting a fool, my first thought is, "What are his parents like?" Many times when I see the parents acting the same way, I suddenly understand why the child may be loud or obnoxious too. However, there is that...

Posted on 07/03/2008 at 11:07:20 PM

 
Great article. ADD needs much more research.

Posted on 07/03/2008 at 11:07:31 PM

 
I think its important that teachers and parents are aware of adhd so they know how to respond to students who suffer from it. i really don't believe in the theory of bad or evil kids. i think that young kids are honestly affected by many issues some out of their control. i think teachers could try different methods to help the kids like you suggested. Good article.

Posted on 07/03/2008 at 10:07:46 AM

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