Culture

Casual conversation is not always casual. Words spoken can take on a meaning of their own and fester as reality if people don't consider the context. For instance a few days ago I went out to eat at the Karshone's cafe in town. While I was thoroughly enjoying my Swiss and olive burger with fries, I asked the waitress what her plans were for this Fourth of July. She responded she doesn't believe in the holiday. Her view is if a person speaks his mind, he will get shot. I didn't say anything, although what she said disturbed me. And although I am no expert at reading people, her eyes widening as if someone had literally shot her, suggests she obviously meant it. I just couldn't believe what I was hearing, as she conflated freedom with death.

Perhaps as the Fourth of July draws near, some people forget its meaning. I hope I speak for the multitude when I say it is about a celebration of family and freedom. We celebrate each other, and gestures such as a plate of chocolate chip cookies is cause for fireworks. The freedom to express to someone how you feel should never be taken lightly either. In that respect the waitress at Karshone's has a point, even as she contradicted herself the exact moment she voiced her opinion. Yet that is the beauty found in the freedom of speech, and in freedom. Everyday is about celebrating the inherent value found when we least expect it. I know I am grateful for the encouragement and support from friends and family. Life without them would be no life at all.