5 Ways to Get Your Girlfriend Back

Play it cool

You know how some guys when their girlfriend breaks up with them? They spend a lot of time
calling them up trying to find out what went wrong and asking for another chance. Don't do
that. The best thing to do is play it cool. No matter what happens, no matter how horrible
you feel, play it cool. Don't call her, don't text her and don't email her. If you
absolutely must talk to her do your utmost to keep any bile or rancor out of your voice.
Keep it light and even friendly.

Find other things to do

Now that you don't have a girlfriend to hang out with (temporarily), it's a good time to
find something to do to take your mind off of her. Get a hobby, something you can put your
whole mind into. Do things with your friends. By doing this you stand a very good chance
to get your girlfriend back. The reason for this will be explained later.

Don't drink

If you want to get your girlfriend back, then for the love of God don't drink, at least for
the first few months anyway. I'm not getting on a soapbox about sobriety here, I'm trying
to protect you. Think about it. When you get a few drinks in you at the beginning of a
breakup what do you do? Drunk dial and text, that's what. If you must drink at least give
your cell phone to a friend to hold before you start.

Don't overanalyze what went wrong

Don't spend a lot of time trying to figure out what went wrong in the relationship. Don't
try to figure out how to get your girlfriend back and don't spend a lot of time obsessing on
things to do to win her back. Do something else. Do anything else otherwise you're wasting
your time. Concentrate on the above steps and you'll feel better, honest.

Don't Beg

When you beg, your ex will find this pathetic and weak and this is not the way to get your
girlfriend back. Her thoughts about you will be negative and you want her to feel positive
thoughts about you if you want her back. One of the most positive thoughts a person can
feel is admiration. You want her to admire you for the way you're handling the
relationship.

The reason that these tips work is because of a concept that can be summed up in one
sentence. It goes like this and pay attention:

"What we want the most is the thing that we can't have."