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Overcoming the Physical Pain Associated with Recovery from Childhood Sexual Abuse

Sexual Abuse Recovery

By Joy Messer, published Jul 16, 2008
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After having a conversation recently with several survivors of childhood sexual abuse, I was reminded, once again, about how much physical pain there is in this recovery process. Because it has been several years since I have had to deal with the body pain, the flashbacks, and the body memories, I had almost forgotten about this painful process. I hope the above comment alone will serve as an incentive for survivors to continue moving forward in their own healing process. It really does get better . . . much better!

The Process of Dealing With Repressed Memories

Over the years, I have worked alongside many survivors of sexual abuse and I also have my own experience from which to draw. Almost without fail, anyone who has repressed memories will develop pain in their body prior to beginning the recovery process. Most of us are diagnosed with such things as Fibromyalgia or Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and we are put through a myriad of tests only to find nothing significant as the root cause for our pain. It is always a good idea to have a physical examination in order to rule out any causes for the pain, but once that is done, it is time to look at how repressing memories (holding them inside our bodies and minds) impacts our physical bodies.

My Personal Experience

Overcoming the Physical Pain Associated with Recovery from Childhood Sexual Abuse
Overcoming the Physical Pain Associated with Recovery from Childhood Sexual Abuse

Pain Free!

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Takeaways
  • Most of us are diagnosed with such things as Fibromyalgia or Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.
  • It really does get better . . . much better!
  • Today, I am pain free.
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Great information about a subject that many people are fearful of talking about - or even listening to someone else talk about. It is one of those terrible reminders that denial is more than a river in Egypt! Thanks for shining a light where it is badly needed.

Posted on 07/17/2008 at 11:07:46 AM

 
Dr. Jamie makes some good points and while I don't think all who suffer from indeterminate syndromes have severe trauma, I do think issues that haven't been dealt with, abuse or otherwise, play a greater role than we like to admit. Keep the faith and thank you for sharing your personal progress.

Posted on 07/16/2008 at 9:07:01 PM

 
This is very helpful information Joy. Someone close to me is dealing with this very problem and is thought to be a hypochondriac by some friends and family members, particularly since she has not been diagnosed with a specific illness. I know that her pain is real and that it stems from the psychological trauma caused by her past. However, the relationship between the two is difficult for some people to grasp. I hope that this article reaches all those individuals who are struggling to explain or understand the connection. It is very real!!!

Posted on 07/16/2008 at 4:07:10 PM

 
i love you, Joy!

Posted on 07/16/2008 at 3:07:22 PM

 
Great article~!

Posted on 07/16/2008 at 1:07:43 PM

 
This is an awesome article. Being a survivor of abuse I can relate. I get a lot of back pain for no apparent reason. I do have degenerative disc disease, and I am sure that is part of it... but I will have almost electric shock pains here and there and then they are gone. Or I'll be in bed and I will scream out in pain when trying to turn over in bed. I haven't done anything to hurt my back.. I just get pain out of the blue.

Posted on 07/16/2008 at 1:07:25 PM

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