Bachelorette DeAnna Pappas Finds Her Future Husband on ABC Finale

The awaited finale of the Bachelorette, while shocking to us loyal viewers, was less impactful than past seasons. The family meetings and individual dates did not seem personable. I don't feel as if any of the experiences added to the existing relationships that DeAnna Pappas had with her two beaus.

When the family meets the two guys she has chosen, I feel as if they weren't as open-minded with both men. When meeting Jason, because he was the first guy, it seems that the family was more willing to open up and ask the tough questions, yet were still respectable. Jason provided heartfelt answers, however I feel as if because he is the stable guy that has been married previously and has raised a child, he has the advantage with the Pappas family.

Next comes Jesse, a more off the cuff guy whom DeAnna has fallen for. Her family, while more traditional, had trouble believing in his reasoning for loving her. Perhaps this was because of what he looked like (someone that DeAnna typically does not go for). However, I was annoyed that they doubted him because he was nervous. In my personal experiences, when a guy is nervous, it means he cares and his entire body shows you that.

As a critique of the way the show was taped, I don't like that it seems as if they are looking at the camera throughout the experience. I would like to see a more candid perspective. While it's natural to look at a camera in your face, every time it happens, it makes me feel as if I'm watching something that isn't real. Or maybe it isn't? That's for you to decide!

Jeremy, a bachelor who did not receive a rose last week, has one last chance to talk to DeAnna. What was complicated was when she explained that he was everything she wanted in a guy, but she didn't choose him. While not knocking her completely, if someone gave me that explanation on why I wasn't chosen to remain with her, I wouldn't feel satisfied nor happy. This was similar to his reaction after speaking with her. Their interaction was intense, however that doesn't excuse the fact that she didn't provide closure, something she herself said she needed in her situation last season when her heart was broken during the finale.