Killing Me Softly, Heterosexism and Black America

Heterosexism has created havoc in the lives of many gays and their families. In some cases it is a normal response is to discriminate against someone because of sexual orientation. The need for unity among many Black heterosexuals and Black homosexuals. One of the most painful facts is the division created by traditional Black heterosexuals. This country was built with the blood of division. The very foundation that makes this country a country is based on discrimination and prejudice. America's history is a meltingpot of separation and racist thinking. Because of these facts, you would expect your own people to embrace you no matter what.

Heterosexism is not homophobia. Heterosexism is the belief of superiority of heterosexuals or any behavior considered heterosexual. In many ways heterosexism is similar to sexism and racism. Heterosexism describes a systematic philosophy that stereotypes, denies and discriminates against all non heterosexual forms of behavior. It is the overt exclusion of all non-heterosexual persons in policies, procedures, services, health care or events. Everyone who isn't straight is considered a sexual minority. Transsexuals, persons born with both reproductive organs, gays, and lesbians are affected by heterosexism. Heterosexism is an extreme form of discrimination.

Heterosexism is institutional prejudice in its highest form. Because of societies religious, political, and cultural views, homosexuality remains invisible. It remains a taboo subject. The goal is to keep gay people invisible and silenced. Because of this visibility, homosexuals are subject to assault from society. An example of these assaults are the church turning it's back. The Federal and State ban on same gender marriage. Other examples are in healthcare, employment, and the ban homosexuals in the military.

Heterosexism is quite different from homophobia. Homophobia is prejudice, harassment, violence and often death based on an individual's belief or attitude. Homophobia is fear and deep seated hatred. Homophobia is a plague in Black America.