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How Immigrant Parents Do Their Children a Disservice when They Do Not Learn English

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By Sophie, published Jul 21, 2008
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Immigrants who move to America will not immediately assimilate into American society or learn to speak flawless English like a native-born American. But what happens five or ten years down the line when they have children and the parents have still not mastered the English language? Read on to learn more about how immigrant parents do their children a disservice when they do not learn English.

While some immigrants who move to America are natural linguists and pick up the English language with relative ease within the first few years after their arrival, many struggle for years to feel comfortable with conversing in English. Rather than persevere in their efforts, some give up. This not only has long term consequences for them as they struggle to get by in America, but it can also have a huge impact on any children that they have.

One of the most significant ways in which children of immigrants who do not learn English suffer is at school. School trips, dances, fund raising events and parent-teacher conferences are important, every day events in a child's life, but even more so when the parents support their children. Immigrant parents who do not speak English will not be able to chaperone their children and others to the fullest extent or be as involved in these events as children whose parents speak English. While some immigrant parents can and do participate in their children's curricular and extra curricular activities, their involvement will be limited, unless they find teachers and other parents who speak the same language as they do or if their children translate for them.

Children of immigrants who do not speak English will only be able to offer limited assistance during homework assignments. It will be hard for parents to help their children with an English grammar exercise or to read to them if they themselves are unable to grasp English.

Takeaways
  • Many immigrants find it difficult to assimilate into the American culture and society
  • Children of immigrants who don't speak English sometimes lack practical support at school events
  • Children can still be successful at school, but they will fare better if they can feel supported
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I hope native speakers will translate this into French, Spanish, Arabic, Vietnamese, Korean, Urdu, Hindi, AND Amharic.

Posted on 07/24/2008 at 12:07:01 PM

 
This would be a difficult situation for parents and children alike. I have no affinity for languages, so I can sympathize with the parents. Perhaps the children could help them.

Posted on 07/22/2008 at 10:07:53 AM

 
I agree with this but immigrants should strive to learn the language specially the parents. There are many ESL teachers who can help them learn. They can hire private tutors to teach them. I am also an immigrant but I am glad we have English subject in our schools and we can speak and understand English wherever we will go. Though we are not as good as the native Americans but at least we can understand it.

Posted on 07/22/2008 at 10:07:45 AM

 
Good work.

Posted on 07/22/2008 at 7:07:25 AM

 
Thanks for the comments. Sophie

Posted on 07/21/2008 at 11:07:04 PM

 
Ditto to Carol's comment, but I agree with you 100%. This can be a very difficult situation.

Posted on 07/21/2008 at 11:07:05 PM

 
Excellent points. Have to say though that English fluency and even a grad degree are not always enough to be able to help children with homework given some of the bizarre assignments with poor or incorrect instructions handed out in American schools.

Posted on 07/21/2008 at 8:07:06 PM

 
I agree! You made some wonderful points.

Posted on 07/21/2008 at 8:07:14 PM

 
I totally agree great work~!

Posted on 07/21/2008 at 5:07:26 PM

 
I know some parents who know almost no English and they have so much trouble with helping their kids with homework, reading the report cards, etc. They really struggle with it, but while some work hard as hell to learn the language, some just don't want to.

Posted on 07/21/2008 at 5:07:13 PM

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