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Why Wait?

By Agaric, published Nov 15, 2006
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There is a lot of hoopla about practicing abstinence until marriage. Yepper, I’m going to focus on Christians primarily. So get ready for a less-than-racy account of the context of this Christian dogma.

When the Gospels were being pieced together over the course of fifty or so years, the world was a very different place. There was no modern medicine, no antibiotics, and no developed understanding of surgical procedures. Thus, a lot more people were succumbing to disease and infected wounds from nasty metal objects. Rome and its provinces sported effective urban design but following its fall it would take fourteen centuries to reach that former level of cleanliness in Europe. Excluding infant mortality which tends to skew figures toward lower-than-accurate ranges, the life expectancy in Europe and Eurasia from about AD 1 through the High Middle Ages was quite lower than it is today.

What does all of this have to do with screwing? Well, most of the world pre-1600 devoted itself to subsistence farming or mild surplus cropping in limited markets beginning after the decline of Viking invasions. In order to farm and produce sufficient food, families needed to be large. The extra hands meant extra labor. In order to produce enough food to feed these large families, farming was needed, and large families were needed to effectively farm. The two went hand in hand. Now, what do you get in a world where people are kicking the bucket at unexpected and early times, yet need to keep farming to stay alive?

Christian Sex and Marriage

On the Cross.

Credit: Matthew Wendus

Copyright: Matthew Wendus

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I am a pastor from Ghana.my wife died three years ago and i live alone with my six years old daughter.i have not married again because i have not any woman I will love to marry.but I am begining to have problem with my feeling and can somebody help manage that?

Posted on 08/17/2007 at 8:08:00 AM

 
Uh...try reading my article about why I DON'T support abstinence only education. Then feel free to make such IGNORANT assumptions about my beliefs, Terry.

Posted on 12/03/2006 at 11:12:00 PM

 
Some people see abstinence before marriage as a way of respecting the bodies that God gave them and only sharing that great gift with one person. Some think that doing the most intimate thing you can do with someone with anyone other than your spouse is like giving your spouse a used body. I guess if you want a used one instead of a brand new one, than that's your choice. Not all Christians are the same either. Culture may give you stereotypes, but if that's all you listen to that's all you'll know.

Posted on 12/03/2006 at 10:12:00 PM

 
The way sex is treated by many of the abstinence only crowd can be very harmful. Even the body of the opposite sex is treated as a filthy and obscene thing (witness the outcry over the breast of Janet Jackson) this type of suppression at all costs attitude creates far more problems than it solves...

Posted on 11/28/2006 at 11:11:00 PM

 
Lena, Lena, Lena. The problem is, the non-abstinence people don't try to RAM THEIR VIEW DOWN YOUR FREAKING THROAT BECAUSE THEY THINK IT'S THE FREAKING WORD OF GOD. Whereas your lot does, and then wants the US Gov't (i.e. our tax dollars) to pay for that message. The author here is quite right: the practice of premarital abstinence is atavistic, barbaric, and crude. Sex is a high art that needs devotion and practice to get right. Ignoring that fact dooms the practitioner to a hopeless mediocrity.

Posted on 11/27/2006 at 2:11:00 PM

 
Oh boy, where do I begin? Just because people get married later and don't need larger families anymore is irrelvant. Sex is a normal part of development? Well, some would say that it is unnatural to be monogomous, so should we all start becoming polygamists? Those who want to have sex before marriage will justify it whatever way they can and those who think you should wait will do the same. When you say that 9 year olds shouldn't have sex, but that people should when they feel ready....what if a 9 year old DOES feel ready? Or what if someone doesn't feel ready when they are 30? Is that considered abnormal? We obviously disagree on this issue but make sure to be careful. I know plenty of non-Christians who think you should wait too, don't lump all Abstinence promoters into one group.

Posted on 11/23/2006 at 2:11:00 PM

 
haha I love the picture you used

Posted on 11/22/2006 at 4:11:00 PM

 
Ha ha! Great article.

Posted on 11/20/2006 at 11:11:00 AM

 
hehehe.. you said "mindless fucking" hehe

Posted on 11/16/2006 at 12:11:00 PM

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