Myspace - the Cause of Divorce?

I have heard of some men and women complain that the Internet "particularly Myspace" is the reason they have broken up with their loved ones or even divorced. That it ruins relationships and marriages. A lot of people now will not allow the ones they are with to even have a Myspace account due to the insecure suspicion one might use it to start another relationship or better yet "hook up". So does all the hype of this have any truth to it? I talked to some women that have had experiences with Myspace and here is what they had to say.

Jennifer Thompson, 32 of Ypsilanti Michigan; "Personally, as long as everything is above the board and both parties know what is going on, I don't see a problem with it. I don't have a Myspace, but my husband still does. I do all the pictures, and updates for him. So, I guess I am still involved with it. I trust him completely and the ladies on his Myspace are not only his friends, but mine too!"

This is a good example of old fashion trust. Yet it may not be enough in some of today's relationships, seeing how one may cheat with or without the trust of their spouse, but it does help in securing a relationship. Being involved in your spouses life and friends is a very important aspect of a marriage.

You do not have to necessarily like or hang out on a regular basis with your spouses friends if you do not want too, however to know where that person stands as well as letting them know you are there is important. Doing these things without being nosy or judgmental is the way to go about it, being involved in most aspects of a spouses life will not only help with the trust and security of a marriage or relationship, yet also show your spouse that you take interest in them and their interests.