Is There Much of a Difference? NO! We Are Really the Same in a Lot of Ways

Funny how I have barely any experience as far as dating is concerned. There is one thing that I have figured out, though. If we really look at it, men and women are really the same when it comes to relationships, making up and things that have to do with being together, etc.

Ask yourself these questions.

What is the most cause for break ups now and days?
I am sure that both men and women reading this would say communication.
Communication is essential in any relationship. You can manage to hold it together for a period of time, but eventually the relationship will fail, with no communication. There is also a proper way to communicate as well. If we don't talk to one another and respect each other, then it makes it hard to understand one another. A lot of the times it isn't even the lack of communication, it is the way in which we communicate.

Ladies, word of advice (I know we love to talk and carry on): DO NOT 'force' a man to talk. Do not push him to talk to you. This makes him uncomfortable. Sure he has much to say but men don't just blurt things out. They tend to think out what they say and if we are pushy, they will communicate alright, but not the way we want them to.

Gentlemen, ladies need to talk in order for you to know what is on her mind. DO NOT think that you have to come up with the answers because that is definitely not the case at all. Most of the time, we are not looking for answers, we are looking for someone to listen to us. We know that you want to help out so you sit there trying to figure out a remedy for the problem. Just relax and if you must tell us something, just simple say, "ok, I understand:" Women tend to just need someone to talk to and listen to them. We like acknowledgment with just a simple gesture that you are listening.