Do You Remember Your First Ballpark Visit?

It is a wonderful thing having a son. I enjoy taking my son to places and events that I like, with the hope that he'll experience things that will excite him, too. He spent his first day at the beach when he was six months old. He was not quite two when he
 saw his first major art exhibit, where he cracked everyone up by looking at a nude by Matisse and yelling, "mommy!" And this past week he saw his first professional baseball game as a five-year old.

People were surprised that I waited so long to take him to a baseball game. Perhaps I waited until he was five because that was the age I was when I went to see a game for the first time and I still have a lot of memories about that day.

My dad worked two jobs and the last thing he would ever dream of doing was to take me to a game. My oldest brother took me. He was and is a Dodgers fan and we saw a game when they played the Mets.

I remember being terrified as we cross the Verrezano-Narrows Bridge (I'm still not fond of bridges to this day). I remember my brother asking me what kind of seats we should get. He went through and named all of the different levels, but I had no idea what mezzanine or lodge or any of the other words he used were. Then he said box seats and I immediately said I wanted those because I thought it meant we were going to sit on a box.

We got upper box seats and I remember being scared about falling out of my seat for the first couple of innings. When we got to our seats, my brother asked me if I thought we could get any foul balls. I told him I thought Willie Davis might be able to hit one that high. In hindsight that was a pretty good answer for a five-year old, knowing one of the stars on the opposing team. Willie Davis hit .305 that year.

Now, I was a baseball fan and I knew several of the Mets and at least one Dodger, but let's be honest - I was five. I really wasn't ready to sit in a seat for the two-to-three hours that the game was going to take and my brother was aware of the situation. He kept me entertained by buying something from a vendor virtually every inning.

 
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Great piece!

Posted on 01/02/2009 at 4:01:20 AM

First ball game was Braves/Dodgers in 1981- I will never forget it and was hooked from the start. Brian, this was without a doubt my favorite piece by you so far. Excellent and heartwarming with plenty of nostalgia. Fantastic write man!

Posted on 09/23/2008 at 11:09:52 PM

My memory is like a sieve, but I fondly recall going to the Vet as a youngster with my dad. Good times. Nice article. Here's to many more games with you and your son (and daughter!).

Posted on 07/28/2008 at 2:07:39 PM

That is a wonderful story Brian. I read your Matisse comment to my co-worker, fantastic! My oldest brother used to take me to the bleachers at Fenway, when I was 7-ish and onward. I still have a ticket stub from 1979 with Carl Yastrzemski on it. While I can't remember my first game there, what I do remember was walking up the ramp as a kid and seeing the greenest grass I ever saw, and the Green Monster, everything was so green and open...it was so exciting. In 1977 my grandmother mistakenly threw out my baseball cards (I kept next to the trash in a similar looking bag) and was devastated. My siblings bought cards to replenish them, and my same brother went through each team with me counting all the cards. I still have the box with his handwriting on the inside cover. More than one great memory around baseball, and I'm taking my 10-month old daughter to Fenway for the first time next Tuesday. She won't remember a thing, but I'll have the video camera there to record it.

Posted on 07/24/2008 at 11:07:00 AM

I was four or five the first time I went to Busch Stadium. I remember little things, but not really any of the action. I would say seven or eight is the right age to start going to the park. Those few years really do make a difference in what you are able to retain.

Posted on 07/22/2008 at 12:07:15 PM

Gee, if you were going to upgrade from the Cubs you could have picked a franchise that won more often than the Phillies.

Posted on 07/22/2008 at 9:07:23 AM

Wow Jonathan, I thought your father was a Yankees fan. Maybe it was you? The line about the tenement buildings is a classic kids line. I wish we could have video of your dad's face when you said that one.

Posted on 07/22/2008 at 9:07:21 AM

Good story. I think kids need to be old enough to sit in there seat and watch the game before they go for the first time.

Posted on 07/21/2008 at 3:07:37 PM

I know the answers...yes, yes and yes. LOL. As long as he has fun, it will be remembered! Great story! Thanks for sharing it. His next words may be "take me out to the ballpark" :-)

Posted on 07/21/2008 at 2:07:56 PM

Great piece.

Posted on 07/21/2008 at 11:07:51 AM

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