How Do I Get My Ex Back - 5 Ways to Show Your ExThat You Love Them - Part 1

Are you asking yourself the question, "How do I get my ex back?" If so, this is a great place to start! Learning how to get your ex back can be a simple thing, as long as you are open to learning more about him or her. Perhaps it can begin today by understanding a little more about how they feel loved.

Research has proven that most people feel loved in just a handful of different ways. Do you know what makes your ex feel loved? If not, grab your pencil and a piece of paper to take notes with, because you are going to learn today, what you can do to get back with your ex.

If you think you know what makes your ex feel loved, the second question to ask yourself is, "Did I show my ex love, in a way that they understood?" Most of you will say "no" to the second question and I know this is true, because of your current predicament.

It is very safe for me to assume that you did NOT show love to your ex in a way that he or she understood. If you did, you would probably still be together.

So, with this understanding under our belt, let me describe to you the first of five ways that most people feel loved.

#1. Some people feel loved through spending quality time together.

Quality time is not time spent just doing something together. If you take your mate to a football game and just sit next to each other, watching the game, that is not quality time.

Guys tend to do this with other guys. "Yeah, me and Jimmy went to the Packers game - we had a great time!" Sorry guys, but most women will not consider watching the Packers as quality time.

Oh sure, you could both enjoy the game and even each other, but this is not quality time.

Quality time is best defined as a time that two people spend sharing about themselves. Some men loathe the idea of actually talking at length with their mate. But guys, that is exactly what she may need in order to feel loved.

Quality time is best spent in a quiet setting, a place where you feel comfortable and willing to open yourself up through dialogue and discussion.

Talking about the weather is not the best topic. Talking about your feelings, dreams, fears, hopes, goals and future could very well lead into some serious quality time.