Job Interview Trick: How to Calm Your Nerves

Appear Relaxed an Confident at Your Next Job Interview!

By Morgan Vermeil, published Dec 01, 2006
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Ever been nervous? If so, you might have experienced sweaty palms, a sense of lightheadedness and rambling speech - and none of those things will help you make a great impression at a job interview.

Unfortunately, the stressful nature of a job interview can be enough to make almost anyone nervous. But you don't have to worry about a clammy handshake and stammering chatter if you try a few simple tricks to calm your nerves:

Arrive early. Very early.
Everyone knows you should be a few minutes early for your job interview. But if you're easily disturbed by stressful situations, you should strive to arrive about thirty minutes early. Sit in your car or a nearby coffee shop, and use the time to relax. Then head to the restroom to check your clothes and overall appearance. If you feel confident and secure, you'll be less likely to succumb to your nerves.

Smile! Smiling makes us seem friendly and confident - even if we don't feel it! And studies have found that even forcing a smile will make us feel a little bit happier. When you portray confidence, the interviewer will treat you with respect, which makes it easier to relax your nerves. So smile confidently when you greet the interviewer.

Take a moment to answer.
Before you answer any questions, take just one moment to inhale a deep breath and give the question some quick thought. It may seem like an eternity has passed, but it will only be one or two seconds - and your pause will seem like a natural, thoughtful pause. Moreover, the deep breath will help calm you, and preparing the answer in your mind means you'll be less nervous when you speak.

Look at the interviewer's face. If meeting the interviewer's eyes makes you nervous, then start at the spot right between his/her eyebrows. (Avoid staring at noses and mouths, however. Since they're below the eyes, most of us can tell when someone is looking at those parts of our bodies.)

Job Interview Trick: How to Calm Your Nerves

Smile so you appear confident and relaxed.

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Takeaways
  • Relax your body without slumping.
  • Smile!
  • Look at the spot between the interviewer's eyebrows.
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IM A FUCKING QUEER

Posted on 05/23/2008 at 8:05:39 AM

 
IM A FUCKING QUEER

Posted on 05/23/2008 at 8:05:39 AM

 
IM A FUCKING QUEER

Posted on 05/23/2008 at 8:05:39 AM

 
You forgot to mention something: Don't get a drive-through lunch on the way to the interview and spill Diet Coke on the front of your interview suit. (Yep, this happened to me!) By the way, I bought a new blouse on the run and got the job anyway.

Posted on 08/15/2007 at 10:08:00 AM

 
In colege they teach you not to believe anything found on the internet. The so called experts have all the answers. I totally disagree. I think ordinary everyday real people know plenty and can help others with what they have learned through life. Thanks for the input on calming nerves. The best way to de-stress and calm nerves is not an instant thing. Firstly, make sure everything in your life is in order; bills paid on time, clean and orderly surroundings, forgive others, eat bananas and other fruits and plenty of greens. Lay off coffee and coke for awhile. But my main point is get your life in complete order, eat right, don't hate anyone, always be kind. And always always give thanks for your blessings.

Posted on 03/22/2007 at 7:03:00 AM

 
Good advice. Maybe you should read my article How To Not Get A Job, lol

Posted on 02/19/2007 at 9:02:00 PM

 
Good advice Morgan. 5 stars and a stalk.

Posted on 12/01/2006 at 1:12:00 PM

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