How to Attract a Good Man - Dating Tips 101

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Women all over the world have tried to figure out a way to attract a man that will not leave them high and dry, or disappointed in the long run. The popular sentiment is that attracting a good man is difficult.

Truth is, finding a good man is easy. We men are simple creatures, with simple wants and needs. Our brains process females in very simple ways. Men are still cavemen at heart when it comes to the opposite sex, though a select few have learned to dive into the emotionally-aware arena.
 

To attract a good man, a woman should consider those things that good men find attractive. Here are some ways to attract a good man.

Advice for Attracting a Good Man Number One

Good men like a woman that has a brain of their own. As such, a woman should not be afraid to agree to disagree or debate an issue. If a man is threatened by this, then chances are he is not the one you are looking for.

Advice for Attracting a Good Man Number Two

Good men are looking for a partner and not a slave. Women should certainly be willing to be self-reliant and contribute to the team. Independence is healthy and a good man will help their lady to be who she wishes to be.

Show yourself to be strong, and you will attract a good man. Corrupt men look for women that are weak and unable to take care of themselves because they are easy to manipulate. Do not be a victim!

Advice for Attracting a Good Man Number Three

Show your love for your family. Every good man I know of finds this very attractive. If you are your family's biggest champion regardless of their faults, you will be very attractive to a prospective good man. Affection for your family shows loyalty.

Advice for Attracting a Good Man Number Four

Be generous to a fault. This does not mean to give your life savings away and go bankrupt. It means that you desire to be part of the world's solutions even if it costs you. This is one of the sexiest traits on Earth to a good man.

Advice for Attracting a Good Man Number Five

Related information
  • Good men are easier to find then you might think.
  • Good is a relative term. Some women define it differently.
  • Good men want a strong woman.
 
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great article.

Posted on 07/04/2009 at 12:07:03 PM

Some fitting advice here. I have a good man and we have been happily married for 10 years! I must say, too, to always be yourself -- BE AUTHENTIC.

Posted on 09/03/2008 at 3:09:02 AM

Another high quality piece.

Posted on 08/06/2008 at 9:08:57 PM

Good read and you know what as a woman I believe a lot of us are the same way!

Posted on 08/06/2008 at 8:08:32 AM

Interesting as always. The caveman thing---I have a stepdaughter who keeps finding Neanderthals, which is saddening because she's a beautiful young lady who should be able to attract the best guys around. Maybe online dating services should add this article on their websites as a guideline.

Posted on 08/03/2008 at 3:08:36 PM

You nailed it! I found my great guy almost 23 years ago and we are still going strong.

Posted on 08/03/2008 at 6:08:24 AM

totally good... Julie(my daughter is a good woman) not only do good women make a good man but good men make a good woman. I actually have the best of them all. however the article is very good.. question I would pose is ... What degree do we deceive ourselves .. that would be the degree that we dont get what we need in another human being. Also how much do we expect someone else to do for us that also is the degree we fail. We are an asset to our partner not a make over to them..... ooooooh dat was good////// We cant be fault finders . we must be pro finders ... character builders .... praisers..... uplifters.... encouragers... ... IN CHANGING ME .... the world changes around me ... be blessed .....later ... mama kerry

Posted on 08/02/2008 at 11:08:41 AM

By any chance, do you have a few available good man friends in Massachusetts you could send my way? Great article. :)

Posted on 08/01/2008 at 12:08:26 PM

I'm so glad I found the best man in the world and don't have to worry about this (sorry, Rodney you only run a close second to mine)!

Posted on 08/01/2008 at 10:08:20 AM

Nice article; I will put a link to it in my dating Squidoo lens. I will also follow that advice whenever I decide that I am ready to date again.

Posted on 08/01/2008 at 4:08:35 AM

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