Chose Your Words Wisely

This article was first published in the Cat's Meow, the sister site to my e-zine, Storytime Tapestry under the name of Beware of the Games that You Play.

The year was 1962, and grade I was finally over for the summer. I was no longer in the clutches of the evil Mrs. Appelaize. I was so excited. When we walked into the classroom that last day of school, there was going to be an end-of-year party and we would get our report cards. It was
 only then that I would know whose class I would be in next year.

Though I was happy to be away from Room 10 and Mrs. Appelaize, I didn't want it to be in Room 9 either. Mrs. Moffat was worse than Mrs. Appelaize, even though that was hard to believe. She was younger and even meaner. Every child was afraid of her;even the ones who had never entered her classroom.

I whined to my grandmother constantly that final month of school about how I didn't want to be in Mrs. Moffat's class. I wanted to be in the other teacher's class. My grandmother hardly sympathized with me and said,

"Your father and your aunt had Mrs. Moffat and they lived through it. As long as you behave yourself and do your work like you are supposed to, it will be just fine."

Well, those words of wisdom did not convince me one bit. Even Renate, who had the nice grade one teacher, was apprehensive.

That last day of class we both were afraid of the outcome. We were far less concerned about how we did on our report cards in terms of our academic standing than we were about which teacher we would be assigned to for the upcoming school year.

Finally the infamous moment arrived; the bomb dropped. I opened up my report card and guess what? I was assigned to Room 9. I waited for Renate at her classroom door once we were dismissed. She too looked forlorn because she was also assigned to Room 9 for the following year as well.

I wondered what we two little girls had done to deserve such punishment. My only consolation was that at least this time Renate was not going to get the nice teacher. Actually, I have to thank my grandmother for reminding me about that. I had forgotten all about the fact that I would be in the same classroom with my only friend.

 
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you pretty much have all my past in these stories, but thanks, mt

Posted on 08/19/2008 at 4:08:05 PM

It is always a pleasure to read your stuff Carol and your thoughts and views and bits and pieces of your past. Thanks for sharing.

Posted on 08/19/2008 at 4:08:02 PM

the same way as you and your husband said things to each other but were offended if other people who were not a part of your family called you the same thing.

Posted on 08/18/2008 at 9:08:02 AM

the original game was made in england and it was catch a tinker by the toe, it was americans who changed it to the n word and that is totally insulting to a black person.

Posted on 08/18/2008 at 9:08:47 AM

I didnt have to go thru that for I never went to a school that had a black person in it till I got to high school. and then we all got along dont think I even heard that word out of anyones mouth when going to school altho I know the game. It was a game. What I havent been able to figure out is how they can call each other that and they dont get hurt but if a white person says it the come unglued!

Posted on 08/18/2008 at 9:08:27 AM

Yeah. the teacher probably should have chose different words but those are the words that I always heard also for that game. Nothing was actually meant by it to any one persob. I really don't think the "N" word was actually meant to be racial. It was a just a chosen word for the game. I can see why Renate got upset about it though because the word used to be used so harsh for black people. They really had it rough trying to be treated equal with white people. I think they should change the "N" word in the name of the game to solve the problem.

Posted on 08/18/2008 at 4:08:46 AM

I don't think she even thought about it when she said it.

Posted on 08/17/2008 at 8:08:07 PM

thanks clara

Posted on 08/17/2008 at 8:08:43 PM

racism is everywhere charlotte

Posted on 08/17/2008 at 8:08:43 PM

Excellent story Carol, and that's why I published it in my publication, The Cat's Meow :) It truly is sooo sad that a teacher, who should have known better (even in 1962!), did not have the brains to realize that her words would hurt and harm two little girls and their friendship! But a lot of teachers back then were insensitive about the words they used when speaking to their students.

Posted on 08/17/2008 at 8:08:09 PM

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