American Manners, Etiquette and Protocol

Proper Etiquette While in the U.S

By Emma S., published Oct 31, 2005
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If you're visiting America or you've moved here recently you can fit in even quicker if you understand American manners and etiquette. America is a huge country with vast differences in cuisine, industries, political beliefs and mannerisms, depending upon the region in which you are.

In the U.S., unlike many other countries, individuals have rights which are protected by American law, no matter who their boss is. These rights include topics like race, age, religion, sexual orientation, disability, pay, safety and personal treatment. These laws are in place to insure that all people are able to find employment and be treated well in a safe environment with fair pay. Overall, America represents a diverse number of nationalities, all of whom are free.

Americans work hard, generally from 8 or 9 a.m. to 5 or 6 p.m. with an hour for lunch, around noon. American holidays include a two-week vacation for most, along with Christmas, New Year, Easter, Labor Day, Memorial Day and a few others. Check an American calendar for extended holidays before scheduling your trip.

Be on time for appointments since punctuality is important in the American culture. It's acceptable to be a few minutes late for a social affair, though. Dress well yet conservatively for your first meeting. Additional meetings may find you adjusting your wardrobe to follow suit with your American counterparts. Dress tends to vary widely depending upon the type of business you're doing and how large the corporation. Pantsuits are generally acceptable business wear for women, tailored suits for men. Leisure hours afford casual dress such as jeans, tee shirts, ball caps.

Many Americans speak only one language: English. It's perfectly acceptable to ask an American to speak slower or repeat what he has said. Idioms, particularly sports-related ones, are abundant in this culture. Saying things like "call the shots", "team players", or "touch base", are second-nature comments in America.

Takeaways
  • Ask before you smoke in a restaurant or home since it's prohibited in some places.
  • Americans work hard and usually reach business decisions in a timely manner.
  • Once a contract is signed consider it unbreakable, for the most part.
Did You Know?
America is one of the few countries that doesn't have a protocol for a particular hand while giving and receiving.
Resources
  • E2 Using the Power of Ethics and Etiquette in American Business by Phyllis Davis  Passport USA: Your Pocket Guide to American Business, Customs & Etiquette (Passport to the World) (Passport to the World) by Dean W. Engel, et al
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hey i m making a project on manners and etiquette nd dis will b a great help from ur side thanx

Posted on 06/26/2008 at 2:06:46 AM

 
Great job! Agree with everything!!!

Posted on 05/05/2008 at 6:05:40 AM

 
Very nice :)

Posted on 04/27/2008 at 5:04:35 PM

 
I live in USA, and i totally agree with Ali about shoving business cards in other peoples pockets. There is a possibility of getting shoved, hit, or even cussed out by someone not wanting to be touched. Also, a very offensive hand sign is having a closed fist and extending your middle finger. Another great tip is to never eat with your mouth open, or talk while eating. People in USA get offended if you have unpleasant breath, so have breath mints or gum at hand at all times.

Posted on 10/22/2007 at 9:10:00 AM

 
Informative however, the part about the business card is not true. I would never shove anything in anyone's pocket unless it was my sister or boyfriend. Also "arguing" over proposals is not a good idea if you are working with a client. If you take issue with some things taking an argumentative stance will be insulting. As for treating your elders...I watch others. In southern households (and businesses) age accounts for a lot. Who gets served first, who gets to talk, who you should address first. I would never go into a friend's home without finding their mother/father and saying hello first. (Unless their indisposed)

Posted on 10/15/2007 at 7:10:00 PM

 
Great site for my lesson plan's resources. Very informative, I must say. Thank a lot!

Posted on 08/15/2007 at 8:08:00 PM

 
it's a really good explanation. it helped me a lot for my presentation of my marketing class. Im in high school and a i had 2 days looking for something easy to understand . thank you so much.!!

Posted on 09/21/2006 at 11:09:00 AM

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