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The journey of a female submissive, real life and forever. This personal story is a glimpse into the trials of making the most important decision of my life, and then living that life to the fullest potential.

This explains the measures taken by BDSM couples to keep a relationship pleasurable even while pushing boundaries.

Bondage can be one of the most delightful, sensual parts of BDSM, but it can also be one of the most dangerous forms, with improper preparation and technique. Bondage enthusiasts enjoy various types of bondage, often using simple household items.

People asked me to define my relationship with my husband and Master, after publishing another article, so I have, here. A glimpse into one definition of BDSM D/s relationships and what it is aall about.

Making sense of all the acronyms and code words in BDSM communities can be a very difficult thing.If a handsome man in black leather at a play party asks, "Would you like to do some blood sports with me, my dear?", what exactly did he ask?

Hot Wax Play in BDSM Scenes can be highly erotic and can be highly dangerous, as with any BDSM exploration, safety comes first - ALWAYS.

Spanking as erotic stimuli is a very popular piece of the whole BDSM or D/s (Domination and submission) culture. WHY?

This article discusses the differences of Dominant and submissive couples that desire Pain and ones that desire Control.

Sometimes a submissive believes they can control the D/s relationship through a little manipulation.

"BSDM": a tricky acronym that seems to be very confusing to many. Yet when broken down, it is really quite simple. Each letter of this acronym corresponds to each other. B & D = Bondage and Discipline. D & S = Dominance and Submission. S & M= Sadomasochism.

For those who are new to the BDSM lifestyle, there are certain aspects of a scene that aren't fully understood until it is too late. One such aspect is subspace, also referred to as subdrop. Subspace is a metaphor for the state of mind for a submissive.

This article gives 4 ways that a submissive can keep herself safe in her BDSM relationship.

Many people like to have sex. some people like vanilla sex and some people like chocolate sex.

If you have started to research submission this will help you understand where your interest may lie.

This article - about the Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism and Masochism collar - is essential reading for the BDSM lifestyle.

In a lot of circles, the terms submissive and slave are used interchangeably. In others, submissive is designated as a different level of submission than a slave is.

A helpful guide to introducing BDSM Edgeplay into your relationship, and not causing mental or emotional hurt to your partner. Fireplay, Needleplay and other possibly frightening play can be introduced to make it enjoyable for all parties!

Imagine being in the depth of a terrific BDSM scene with your partner. Now, imagine the laundry bag full of clothespins. "What?" You say! A handful of colorful plastic or wooden clothespins...Now, let's talk about safety!

Beginning Explorers in the BDSM World hear a lot of advice from more experienced �players'. Unfortunately, a lot of that advice is worth nothing more than it costs…NOTHING.

A starting point for anyone who is new to BDSM or for those who are curious but don't know where to find good, clear information.

How to Choose the Great Dominant in a world of wannabes and wankers. Don't be fooled by players, learn how to spot the character traits and qualities that make a Dominant worthy of your trust and devotion.

Zap! Zap! Buzzzzzzzz! Does even the idea of erotic electrical play send your heart into racing arrhythmia? It used to scare the hell out of me, too! This article may help you explore Violet Wands, TENS Units and Bug Zappers as erotic tools.

Here Comes the Bride! And, he looks beautiful in his tuxedo! A Guide to Celebrating Love in Alternative Lifestyle relationships.

Flogging and being flogged can be erotically stimulating. For the Top (Dominant partner), it can be about power, but it can also be about giving a sensually superior sensation to the bottom (submissive partner).

This is the next in my series of bdsm lifestyle editorials. This one is on being a switch and whether they have the best of both worlds.

A sizeable proportion of couples have made regular use of bondage in their sexual activities at some point in their relationships.

In a consensual BDSM relationship, punishment and pleasure can be gained from these tools.

Meeting friends and, sometimes, partners online is a rewarding experience right from the comfort of your home.

Spend the time with your puppy when he is young and you will reap the benefits of an obedient, enjoyable, well-trained dog.

As the world grows smaller we are faced with the reality that we must learn to communicate more effectively. Language, which is simply a tool to bring us together and to share our thoughts and ideas, is now being used as a tool to segregate.

Have you ever been in the middle of some hot sex and all of the sudden it goes to far? You tell your partner to stop or say no and they listen (or should at least) and stop. BDSM scenes work much the same way, but in some cases no and stop don't truly mean no or stop.

By definition, a limit is a point at which something terminates. In the BDSM lifestyle, limits are considered hard and soft limits.

In BDSM, a safe call is a backup plan to ensure your safety when you meet with a new partner. It's a simple way to check in with a contact person so that they know you're safe; alternatively, if you do not check in with your contact person, they can call the police for you.

This article outlines several questions it is important for a submissive to ask of a potential dominant partner. These questions will help to ensure her safety mentally, physically, and emotionally as she enters into a power relationship.

Gag safety is imperatively important. That cannot be stated more simply, or soon enough. While BDSM play is a normal and highly exciting erotic activity, safety, like with "normal" sex, is vital.

For whatever reason you enjoy BDSM and whatever level of experience you have in it, you will find the following articles to be useful and interesting to read. So here are ten great Associated Content articles on BDSM.

Why do people pursue adult alternative lifestyles and relationships? The answers are as many as the individuals. But one that tends to go across the board is- you guessed it- fun. Another reason is the fulfillment of sexual fantasies

This article discusses BDSM, what it is and involves.

it is in mainstream movies. In mainstream commercials. It is in fashion. And most of all in thousands of videoclips. but is it a culture?

This Article is meant for purely educational purposes and does touch on some mature content. We are dealing with chemical castration in the BDSM / Fetish World of sissy training and domestic emasculation in extreme form.

This article discusses different Dominant roles in BDSM and how to create the Goddess role as the Dominant in your relationship.

Once upon a time to wear a collar meant something very special to a submissive / slave. These Days collars are given easily, are taken even quicker and just another fashion statement. Real BDSM Lifestyler addresses the subject of Collars.

Sex toys are not just for lonely nights. They are a great way to enhance and enjoy your sexual expression with a partner. Here's help in finding the right sex toy to help create a new and erotic experience in the bedroom for the two of you!

A short piece on adapting to our aging bodies while enjoying BDSM and ecstatic sex long into our golden years.

Wouldn't you rather have one or two quality sex sessions than ten that just aren't that great?

Do you have a dog that has some behavior problems that you think are too much to handle? Could it be because your dog thinks it's dominant over you? Keep reading to find out if this may be the case and how to fix the problem.

Dogs are direct descendents of the wolf family. The leader of the pack and dominant dog mentality are deeply ingrained in them. Problems can arise when dog owners allow dogs to feel that they are the dominant animal. Here are some tips on dog training.

This article is just some of my views on submssion, from a general perpective, as well as a personal level. Too many people view BDSM as a kinky bedroom play, but to many people it is so much more than that.

The researchers report that if the woman is a relationship is very verbally assertive, and the man the more submission of the two, then the couple is thought of as less likeable and the entire relationship is in jeopardy.

This essay focuses on works written by Anne Rice through 1999. Her sexually-charged works on vampires and witches helped make Rice a literary celebrity in the contemporary American literature marketplace.

A San Francisco Halloween is a unique kind of holiday. Whether you spend it immersed in the color and energy of the Castro, frolicking with families at Yerba Buena Gardens, or searching for Vampires in the Nob Hill area, you won't forget an SF halloween.

This article is another in my bdsm lifestyle series. This editorial is in regards to the problem of the submissive who tops from the bottom.

I've been involved in this for a very long time. Wrote this when I was 20.

The effects of a market dominant minority and globalization on the countries of the world.

Every year, the young, beautiful, sexy playthings of Los Angeles convene in Hollywood for delightfully wicked Halloween celebrations.

Writing erotica requires a sensitive skill, but most consider this form of writing to be merely words steeped with pornographic undertones.

A brief summary of the spread of Christianity from the time of the Book of Acts until the 20th century

The VHS Videotape format helped turn the once-marginalized world of porn into a $10 billion industry; now the production companies that owe their fortunes to it are abandoning the VHS to go exclusively DVD.

I would like to submit to you that the only REAL freedom that exists is not in abandoning God and spiritual laws of right living, but rather in submitting ourselves to them.

Oracle bone inscriptions are an important piece of evidence into the religious life of the Chinese under the Shang Dynasty (1750-1050 BCE) (Ludwig, 160). These inscriptions were made on the shoulder blades of animals (usually oxen) and on....

Information on how dogs learn and how to test your dog's intelligence.

If you're wondering what is the best way to raise your dog to be a happy and healthy member of your family, you just need to know a few "dog secrets" to make your quest a success

Harriet Jacobs seemed to realize back in her day that her essay would be an inspiration to women all over the country. This is an essay about Jacob's powerful story of slavery and oppression.

An examination of the roles of female characters in Shakespeare's tragedies: Titus Andronicus and Macbeth.

The romance market is one field which truly welcomes new writers with open arms. With at least 2 new lines sizzling forth from Harlequin and small presses on the rise, this is one field the author can't afford to overlook.

Slaves in the American Colonies were forced to follow their masters whims - on the surface. However, a silent cultural rebellion kept African values and culture alive in the midst of slavery, and you can still see the influence today.

This gives an overview of power relationships and the sexual underground where these relationships reside.

Feminist analysis of selected scenes in the 1976 version of Stepford Wives

How one of the first women's comic book heros helped reshape the views of women in the 1950s, and helped them progress into a society where women and men are equal.

Depression is the most common psychiatric diagnoses in the world today. Women have more symptoms, are more likely to be diagnosed and hospitalized, and more likely to attempt suicide. This paper examines precipitating factors and possible solutions.

The debate over whether pornography has a detrimental effect on society has been long and hard. People's opinions are rigid, and most are unwilling to bend over backwards and listen to others' viewpoints. So what's the deal? How bad is porn, really?

Looking for some alternative ideas for the most overrated Hallmark Holiday, try these eight Valentine's day alternatives on

It seems that the United States has reached a tipping point concerning teachers having sex with students. Three female teachers in Tampa, Florida, have been arrested in the past two weeks for having sex with their male underaged students.

Personal opinion on living with a sex addict. Deciding if sex was an addiction in my home. What extremes sex addiction can go to especially when it goes to your sister!

A first hand look at the best sex toy reviews available in the Associated Content library.

Sex determination

Our society is obsessed with both sex and celebrity, so when the two are combined, the obsession is even more fueled. Read Roy A. Barnes' thoughts on this societal fascination.

I remember back on March 7, 2000 when Californians voted yes on Proposition 22. This initiative was to prevent California from recognizing same sex marriage. The proposition stated California would legally recognize marriage between a male and a female.

An experiment in selling Sex.

This is about the sex life of many seniors today.

Kristin Davis plays a reserved character on Sex in the City. A sex video came out today that Kristin claims isn't her. Is this publicity for the new Sex in the City movie?

Healthy sex,not only keep couple together,but keep you fit too

Teenager sex stories at church. Does the Emperor have no clothes?

Sex and the City opens a few days later in Thailand than in the US, but the buzz for it is huge

You hear it all the time..."5-Star Safety Rating'...."Superior Car Safery rating"...but, what exactly does it mean? And how does it impact your decision to buy a car?

Vivid Entertainment plans to market a videotape allegedly featuring Jimi Hendrix having sex with two women

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Since many people have asked me to define sexual compatibility after seeing it mentioned throughout my articles, I've taken on the challenge of writing a full length article on it. From raw sexual intercourse to Tantric sex, it's all here!

By planning ahead, you may find it easier to talk to your tween about sex and sexuality. Here are some tips to help.

Healthy sex has some thing to do with the right timing

The men of Sex and the City have a few things in common with each other as characters and as actors. They are four smart, sweet, nice, hard working guys.

The continual front page coverage of sex crimes and the resulting clamor by the public make lawmakers feel that they have to do something, even if that something is essentially worthless.

To recover from an addiction, you can not only recover from the "symptom" which could be drinking, sex, drugs, nicotine, gambling, shopping, etc... You have to recover from the problem itself.

I've found that I'm indifferent about the idea that a man will respect a woman more if she withholds sex from him for the first several months of their relationship. There are some disingenuous elements here that I think changes things.

Sex Addiction

Sex must be important