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BDSM SAFETY  

Have you ever been in the middle of some hot sex and all of the sudden it goes to far? You tell your partner to stop or say no and they listen (or should at least) and stop. BDSM scenes work much the same way, but in some cases no and stop don't truly mean no or stop.

By definition, a limit is a point at which something terminates. In the BDSM lifestyle, limits are considered hard and soft limits.

For those who are new to the BDSM lifestyle, there are certain aspects of a scene that aren't fully understood until it is too late. One such aspect is subspace, also referred to as subdrop. Subspace is a metaphor for the state of mind for a submissive.

A helpful guide to introducing BDSM Edgeplay into your relationship, and not causing mental or emotional hurt to your partner. Fireplay, Needleplay and other possibly frightening play can be introduced to make it enjoyable for all parties!

In BDSM, a safe call is a backup plan to ensure your safety when you meet with a new partner. It's a simple way to check in with a contact person so that they know you're safe; alternatively, if you do not check in with your contact person, they can call the police for you.

Bondage can be one of the most delightful, sensual parts of BDSM, but it can also be one of the most dangerous forms, with improper preparation and technique. Bondage enthusiasts enjoy various types of bondage, often using simple household items.

Hot Wax Play in BDSM Scenes can be highly erotic and can be highly dangerous, as with any BDSM exploration, safety comes first - ALWAYS.

Making sense of all the acronyms and code words in BDSM communities can be a very difficult thing.If a handsome man in black leather at a play party asks, "Would you like to do some blood sports with me, my dear?", what exactly did he ask?

This article gives 4 ways that a submissive can keep herself safe in her BDSM relationship.

Zap! Zap! Buzzzzzzzz! Does even the idea of erotic electrical play send your heart into racing arrhythmia? It used to scare the hell out of me, too! This article may help you explore Violet Wands, TENS Units and Bug Zappers as erotic tools.

For whatever reason you enjoy BDSM and whatever level of experience you have in it, you will find the following articles to be useful and interesting to read. So here are ten great Associated Content articles on BDSM.

Responsibility in BDSM is not only something that a dominant has to do or show. It is also important that a submissive takes responsibility for her/ himself.

Gag safety is imperatively important. That cannot be stated more simply, or soon enough. While BDSM play is a normal and highly exciting erotic activity, safety, like with "normal" sex, is vital.

Spanking as erotic stimuli is a very popular piece of the whole BDSM or D/s (Domination and submission) culture. WHY?

A starting point for anyone who is new to BDSM or for those who are curious but don't know where to find good, clear information.

Imagine being in the depth of a terrific BDSM scene with your partner. Now, imagine the laundry bag full of clothespins. "What?" You say! A handful of colorful plastic or wooden clothespins...Now, let's talk about safety!

Beginning Explorers in the BDSM World hear a lot of advice from more experienced �players'. Unfortunately, a lot of that advice is worth nothing more than it costs…NOTHING.

Here are some indicators of whether a Dominant is responsible or not. Being a dominant equates accepting responsibility for a submissive.

it is in mainstream movies. In mainstream commercials. It is in fashion. And most of all in thousands of videoclips. but is it a culture?

Many people like to have sex. some people like vanilla sex and some people like chocolate sex.

This article discusses the differences of Dominant and submissive couples that desire Pain and ones that desire Control.

This explains the measures taken by BDSM couples to keep a relationship pleasurable even while pushing boundaries.

This article will share the five things that most submissives want when they look for a dominant male or female.

Ten gift ideas for the confused sub that has no idea what to get that special man or woman in your life.

Meeting friends and, sometimes, partners online is a rewarding experience right from the comfort of your home.

This gives an overview of power relationships and the sexual underground where these relationships reside.

A sizeable proportion of couples have made regular use of bondage in their sexual activities at some point in their relationships.