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Autonomousliving in my workshop in, NY
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I do not consider myself a writer, I consider myself a student who likes to share what I've learned through writing. Education/Experience: High School, Various Naval Schools. Interests: Elevating My Awareness Of Love and Relationships, Spirituality, Studying Personality Disorders, Studying Social Dysfunction and the Anatomy Of Chaos Development Motto: Power over others is weakness disguised as strength. -Eckhart Tolle URL |
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If someone really is REAL, then why can't their actions alone be enough to suggest that? Sometimes when people brag about their sense of realness, what they're really doing to desperately trying to ma...
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Is it really fair to generalize an entire race and gender with something that potentially invalidates some people's genuine insecurities, fears and weaknesses?
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When I think of the word "Swagger", I immediately think of a person who longs to be socially accepted, so they portray a façade of coolness that's ultimately designed to mask their insecurities a...
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Oh just read it, the title is self explanatory!
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Have you ever heard anyone say that having an adulterous affair can actually help a couple's failing marriage? Have you felt rather stunned if the person who happened to have said this to you is actu...
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I often read stories of people who've always put forth an enormous effort to nurture their relationships with people they love & how they do everything they can to make these people happy, only to fee...
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Why Men Marry Bitches, a book review to Sherry Argov's sequel to Why Men Love Bitches.
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Is it possible that when a man says this to a woman, he's not really being a gentleman at all and only regards her as an Attention Whore?
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Parenting is an extremely delicate responsibility that many people seem rather apathetic about. Some sociopathic and sadistic people will even opine that they feel they have the God given right to f*...
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One thing that never ceases to amaze me is when someone makes a prejudicial assumption that just because a person is single or divorced that this alone automatically means that the person doesn't know...
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Book Review on "Sex Detox" by Ian Kerner, Ph.D.
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Is it true that some cheaters can "Change", or is it more truthful to say that they've only changed up until this point in time right now? Will the remain changed tomorrow?
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I recently read a book on childhood sexual abuse, SURVIVING CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE by Carolyn Ainscough & Kay Toon. While reading this book, I found myself surprised as I didn't realize that forcefull...
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Just because your sexual frequency doesn't match or exceed the national average accordingly, that in itself by no means automatically implies doom in your relationship!
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I've come to learn that forgiveness has many levels and as we transcend these levels, we're presented with deeper and more meaningful opportunities for enlightenment. But is it possible that if we're ...
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Many people are so emotionally and psychologically traumatized with their spouse's infidelity that they're unable to see that it's actually a blessing in disguise.
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I believe that feminism is potentially harmful to our children and if we don't teach them healthier views and values, then the social dysfunction that plagues our society will simply continue and expa...
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While many people are attracted to Attention Whores, many decent people live in fear of them. Why fear something that can actually be used to your own advantage? Attention Whores do a great job in par...
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Oh, just read it!
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Is it possible that expressing ancestral pride prevents a person from truly becoming their own authentic individual? In my opinion, yes, it absolutely does!
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If they're shamelessly venting sexual behavior in a crowd, or clearly seeking the sexual attention of several other people right now, would you be comfortable calling this person your spouse if they w...
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I loved this movie & as much as I was ready to see closure to John Rambo's character, I was also a little saddened as I knew we'd never get to see his heroic actions again. Between the characters of ...
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How we conduct or demonstrate our psychoanalysis greatly attributes to the level of harmony that exists within our various interpersonal relationships.
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I believe this book would be a great starting point for an individual with only a fundamental understanding of forgiveness, but if you're seeking a significant degree of elevated awareness, this book ...
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I simply can't imagine the life of an adulterer as they live each day in shame of what they've become. To harbor so much guilt, fear and pain must feel like hell on earth.
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I suppose it all hinges on one's definition of the word "Gentleman", but in my opinion, any man who's attracted to a woman for such superficial and stereotypical reasons is by no means an evolved man ...
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What she's really asking is "Are you a sincere individual of good moral character and integrity with whom I can share a quality and lasting relationship with in true love and harmony without fear of a...
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If a person expressed their commitment and fidelity to their partner, why would they make a conscious choice to engage in flirtatious behavior that tends to provoke a sexual fantasy of someone other t...
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For an individual to stalk another person, it's just too much to think that they're mental sound.
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A buddyship between 2 people yields 2 people in the outcome. A connection between 2 people yields a psychological & spiritual oneness thats capable of growth, direction & evolution. A bond leads to th...
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When a mature & responsible single parent's family structure only involves them & their children, that's where their priorities lay. But two childless singles in a relationship regard each other as th...
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Is it possible that some black men, who engage in IRRs themselves, harbor guilt because their actions don't attribute to race preservation, so they're transferring their guilt in form of similar accus...
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The general nature of a crush or puppy love is superficial at best & I can't help questioning the character & emotional health of a grown adult demonstrating crush-like behavior. What does it say when...
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Expressions like "Because I Said So" and "Do as I say and not as I do" are examples of parents demonstrating emotional abuse towards their children. Though many parents might not see it as such, the e...
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When someone says that they're sick and tired of being single, what they're really saying is that they're miserable within and of themselves and they think that having a partner will change that. But...
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Have you ever noticed how certain social cliques tend to try and latch on to newcomers so that they can groom them and deceive them into blindly conforming to their ways? You do realize it's all roote...
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How can some people blame others for deteriorating the overall look when the behavior that they themselves demonstrate doesn't reflect the overall image of what they say this whole thing should be abo...
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I noticed some loquacious racist white guy say to a victim-minded white woman "Sadly, you're not his type!" This was an indirect reference to me that I've dealt with from time to time with hateful min...
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Many men are primitive beings who have no business being in an adult relationship with a good woman. Men try breaking the ice with scripted superficial questions instead of meaningful dialogue that pr...
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Since many people have asked me to define sexual compatibility after seeing it mentioned throughout my articles, I've taken on the challenge of writing a full length article on it. From raw sexual int...
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It never ceases to amaze me when unethical, immature, unprofessional & hypocritical PETS complain about others doing the exact same things they do themselves. And these dysfunctional people have the N...
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If you're experiencing quirky malfunctions with your cell phone, such as the display image not showing properly when you turn your phone on or the phone not turning on at all after you've flipped it o...
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I fail to see how people can complain that because of their associations, they need not apply. But to watch their behavior, it's obvious to me, they're their own worst enemy, and they cannot see. If t...
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This was by far one of the best self-help books I've ever read. This is a book written about black women FOR black women about the various crisis we experiences throughout our lives and how to survive...
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Emotional Cheating is something that plagues many relationships causing them to deteriorate and fail, but amazingly enough, it's a concept that many people outright reject. So with the use of The Love...
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I'll occasionally see a guy who expresses how happily married he is, yet you see him regularly coming to the rescue of various women online during their childish dramas & you just have to ask yourself...
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Some victims of sexual abuse engage in therapeutic recovery programs and evolve to become abuse survivors while others lead their lives demonstrating victim-minded behaviors. Here I'm demonstrating ho...
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I don't like social cliques, I never have. I feel they're toxic in nature and they interfere with personal growth. But to get mad when someone calls it a "Clique", c'mon now, now only is that denial, ...
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Not that I'm trying to express concern for Cheaters, but something came to mind where some cheaters might be being taken advantage of without realizing what's really happening. Think about it, why are...
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I've found that I'm indifferent about the idea that a man will respect a woman more if she withholds sex from him for the first several months of their relationship. There are some disingenuous elemen...
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I'm currently reading a book by Iyanla Vanzant and she's taught me a brutal lesson in why it's important for me to accept that my life is the only life that I'm ultimately responsible for, and if peop...
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Evil seems to blatantly visible to me. Everywhere I look, I see it stalking people and consuming them and they're completely unaware. But what can I do, it's not like I can convince a fool that they'r...
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Engaging socially can be a very rewarding experience, but when in the presence of various people who regularly demonstrate a complete lack of self-love, such occasions can prove to be a big test of ou...
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Call me arrogant, inconsiderate or whatever you want, but when someone's comments only say things like "Hey, Great Article", that means they're only trying to placate the author and I find that to be ...
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Just some thoughts I had regarding the degree of competitive behavior that I've noticed between many writers and how I think it could spoil the ambitions of a new writer who has many great things to s...
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I think that too many people really have no clue how big the word Relationship is and because of their religious views, they're depriving themselves the ability to really judge their overall compatibi...
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Rape is one of the most heinous crimes a human being can commit and because of it's often unpredictable nature, I believe that people may be increasing the risks of being raped by openly demonstrating...
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Paternity Leave benefits are often unequal to Maternity Leave benefits and I find this to be quite inconsistent in the equal rights movements that so many Americans are in support of. So what are the ...
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I absolutely despise cheaters & I've made it a personal quest to understand how these scumbags operate & blast their manipulative mind games. In this post, Im describing why it's true that most cheate...
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I'm a firm believer that things like Deception, Manipulation and Mind Games are very unhealthy components in a relationship, but that's mostly what this book is about; teaching women to behave manipul...
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I cant help wondering if some of us develop such strict relational preferences that it might cause us to overlook a potential partner with whom we could have had a very healthy & loving relationship w...
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My tribute to a wonderful bunch of people.
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Soul Mates and "The One" is something plaguing many singles and a part of me can't help thinking that this phenomena might actually be working against people and KEEPING them single. I think it's unre...
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I'm reading a book titled THE VAVLUE IN THE VALLEY by Iyanla Vanzant and I'm bridging her message of Down Time and Personal Stillness during periods of Rut, to the unfortunate act of engaging in Rebou...
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There are many among us who absolutely act gratified by all the unnecessary crude sex-talk that often arises as we're meeting new people, but this unfortunately projects onto those who are actually pu...
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Sometimes we find ourselves in a rut feeling helpless, then along comes a friend who unselfishly helps you rise up and shares their strength to help you continue on. We regularly misuse the word Frien...
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I believe that as we're referencing the Divorce Rates here in America, we're misrepresenting what really matters with regards to the success rate have happy marriages. Just because a couple doesn't se...
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This topic will BORE YOU TO DEATH, lol. Please, for the Love of GOD, DON'T READ THIS ARTICLE. You'll want to claw your eyes out if you bother to read this!!! Save yourselves, click the "X", NOW!!!
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Many people find themselves with a partner who's sabotaging their relationship and this can result in a LOT of unnecessary drama. But if you really have any degree of self-respect, you should understa...
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Something just occurred to me in that some people may resort to cheating and adultery because of how stigmatized breaking up and divorce is. I know that sounds twisted, but have a read before you judg...
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At one point in time while listening to the song "Leader of the Band" by Dan Fogelberg, I found myself questioning whether or not my spiritual parents are actually different than my Earthly parents. B...
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"Humility" is something I think many people regard as something negative, and with a general lack of awareness, I suppose it may very well be. But what if you could receive humility as a gift, could i...
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Because I regularly opine my views on people being "Friends First" instead of dating, I'm often asked to define the difference between the two. So, I've done just that AND tacked on a Poll Question a...
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In my opinion, if an individual commits adultery, I feel that automatically forfeits their compatibility with their partner, but I've been asked to spell out a framework for couples to reunite after o...
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In the past 3 years, I've grown quite fond of various Moral Stories, which is why I've always loved the show Little House on the Prairie. But 1 episode taught me an important lesson in that sometimes ...
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I find myself shuddering as certain professionals demonstrate behavior that seems very contradictory to their professions. You have to ask yourself, does someone having a degree in any particular fiel...
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Spiritual Death is something that plagues many people. Whether it's from feeling unlucky in love to simply not knowing your purpose in life anymore, many people become stagnant in their lives as they'...
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As difficult & competitive as it is in the dating scene today, I think it's important for a person, who's putting forth a genuine and sincere effort to seek out a quality partner, to consider every po...
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In line with the expressions, "Things aren't always as they seem" and "Why do relationships have to be so complicated", is it possible that a woman who's regularly dating "Bad Boys" while complaining ...
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There are women who willingly & openly parade the fact that they're having their period, but why? Are there both sincere & malicious reasons for doing so? Why would any woman openly share such persona...
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I'm disappointed in people opining that love doesn't exist. When I take a look at their behavioral patterns and general understanding of love and relationships, it's not that love doesn't exist anymor...
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Online Interracial Romance forums can be fun to participate in, but I've quite often found that many of them don't really seem to nurture the elements really necessary to substantiate quality and heal...
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The singles scene can be very stressful for sincere people putting forth a genuine effort seeking out partners. But with the toxicity in the singles scene, some people resort to running Background Che...
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Its important for people to understand what they're really getting themselves into as they're engaging in relationships with the proverbial Bad Boy or Bad Girl. Their impressive charm and wit is nice,...
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Have you ever seen a man who's venting his emotions being maliciously & unfairly labeled as Bitchaphied? Granted, I think some people can be a little overly dramatic with their crying at times, but wh...
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One thing I've grown VERY tired of throughout the singles scenes are the BS Mind Games, Manipulation Tactics & Deceptions that many people play. And when women TEASE men with their sexuality, she's ju...
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From seeking intimate relationships for the wrong reasons, to advancing their relationship too quickly, most relationships these days FAIL! So why not take a different approach; instead of jumping in ...
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One thing I really dislike in the cloud of racism in our country is the double standards that many people subscribe to. But when a grown adult's dramatic theatrics adds fuel to the fire, it clearly de...
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There's been many times when I've felt the internet has given way to many people allowing the world to see their absolute worst behavior and often times, cloaked under an anonymous screen name. But ca...
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I've found it to be very irresponsible and unfair for a woman to solely judge a man's character based on his relationship with his mother and if she's judged him poorly accordingly, she COULD be passi...
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Many people who suffer heartbreaking separations often end up believing that there are no guarantees in love. But in my opinion, one shouldn't be looking for any guarantees in seeking true love; they ...
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There have been several times in my life where I've heard some women suggest that "Men" have a primitive and materialistic regard for their tools & other boy toys. I don't approve of Misandry or Misog...
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I've found racism to be quite fascinating on one hand, yet down right disgusting on the other hand. Would a parent actually deny their child love and happiness just because their partner is of another...
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I once saw a woman mention "Pro-Black" in her comments posted in a Bw/Wm Interracial Forum and when I compared that to a white man saying "Pro-White", it seemed as if there was a gross double standard...
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Not long after I was separated from my ex wife, I found myself experiencing a painful learning curve regarding many couples who refuse to join 100% of their finances together into one account. I felt ...
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Sometimes I think people feel that being single is a harsh label that causes them to displace their blame for BEING single on God. So instead of owning the brutality of their circumstances & the pain ...
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Sometimes we make mistakes in our judgment of people's character and allow toxic & dysfunctional people into our lives only to be left with the troublesome task of disconnecting from them. What does o...
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In realizing the difference between Cheating and Adultery, it's opened up the margins a little causing me to be less judgmental accordingly. However, we cannot fool ourselves into justifying cheating ...
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One of the most common reasons that adults visit their doctors for is back pain. Here are some steps to reduce the risks of hurting your back.
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Over the years, I've become very dissatisfied with most online BwWm interracial forums because they're typically driven by those with interracial infatuations or "game" and they rarely ever yield qual...
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